Children -- United States; United States -- Social life and customs -- To 1775
It has surprised me that this complaint--and others--should have
been sent home to England, where (as we have abundant evidence) the
whipping of servants was excessive and constant. Pepys and other
old English authors make frequent note of it. Pepys whipped his
boy till his arm was lame. The _Diary of a Lady of Quality_ gives
some glimpses of this custom. On January 30, 1760, Lady Frances
Pennoyer writes at her home at Bullingham Court, Herefordshire, that
one of her maids spoke in the housekeeper's room about a matter that
was not to the credit of the family. My lady knew there was truth in
what the girl said, but it was not her place to speak of it, and she
must be taught to know and keep her place.
The diarist writes:--
"She hath a pretty face, and should not be too ready to speak
ill of those above her in station. I should be very sorry to
turn her adrift upon the world, and she hath but a poor home.
Sent for her to my room, and gave her choice, either to be well
whipped or to leave the house instantly. She chose wisely I
think and with many tears said I might do what I liked. I bade
her attend my chamber at twelve.
"Dearlove, my maid, came to my room as I bade her. I bade her
fetch the rod from what was my mother-in-law's rod-closet, and
kneel and ask pardon, which she did with tears. I made her
prepare, and I whipped her well. The girl's flesh is plump and
firm, and she is a cleanly person, such a one, not excepting my
own daughters who are thin, and one of them, Charlotte, rather
sallow, as I have not whipped for a long time. She hath never
been whipped before, she says, since she was a child (what can
her mother and the late lady have been about I wonder?), and she
cried out a great deal."
Poor little Dearlove, fair and plump, and in bitter tears--you make
a more pleasing picture seen through the haze of a century than
fierce my lady with her rod.
The many hundred pages of Judge Sewall's diary give abundant
testimony of his tender affection for his children. In this record
of his entire married life he but twice refers to punishing his
children; once his son was whipped for telling a lie, a second time
he notes the punishment thus:--
"1692, Nov. 6. Joseph threw a knob of Brass, and hit his sister
Betty upon the forehead so as to make it bleed; upon which, and
for his playing at Prayer-time, and eating when Return Thanks I
whip'd him pretty smartly. When I first went in, call'd by his
Grandmother, he sought to shadow and hide himself from me behind
the head of the Cradle, which gave me the sorrowful remembrance
of Adam's carriage."
It was natural that Judge Sewall, ever finding symbols of religious
signification in natural events, should see in his son Joseph's
demeanor a painful reminder of original sin; and we can imagine with
what sad sense of duty he whipped him.
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