Children -- United States; United States -- Social life and customs -- To 1775
"Betsey is at work for you. I suppose she will tell you
to-morrow is Dancing Day, for it is in her Thoughts by Day & her
dreams by Night. Mr. Fearson was so surprised to find she knew
so much of the Minuet step, and could not help asking if Miss
had never been taught. So you will find she is likely to make
some progress that way. Mr. Wray by reason of business has but
lately taken her in hand tho' he assures me a little practice is
all she wants; her Reading I hear twice a day. And when I go out
she is consigned over to my Sister Blair: we have had some few
Quarrels and one Battle. Betsey and her Cousin Jenny had been
fighting for several days successively & was threatened to be
whipt for it as often but they did not regard us. Her Mamma &
self thought it necessary to let them see we were in earnest--if
they have fought since we have never heard of it. She has
finish'd her work'd Tucker, but ye weather is so warm that with
all ye pains I can take with clean hands and so forth she cannot
help dirtying it a little. I do not observe her to be fond of
negroes company, nor have I heard lately of any bad words;
chief of our Quarrels is for eating of those green Apples in
our garden and not keeping the head smooth.... I have had Hair
put on Miss Dolly but find it is not in my power of complying
with my promise in giving her Silk for a Sacque and Coat. Some
of our pretty Gang broke open a Trunk in my Absence and stole
several Things of which the Silk makes a part. So imagine Betsey
will petition you for some. I am much obliged for the care you
have taken to get all my Duds together, I cannot find you have
neglected putting up anything for Betsey."
It will readily be seen from all these letters that whether the
little girl was taught at home or in a private school, to "sew,
floure, write, and dance" were really the chief things she learned,
usually the only things, save deportment and elegance of carriage.
To attain an erect and dignified bearing growing girls were tortured
as in English boarding schools by sitting in stocks, wearing
harnesses, and being strapped to backboards. The packthread stays
and stiffened coats of "little Miss Custis" were made still more
unyielding by metal and wood busks; the latter made of close-grained
heavy wood. These were often carved in various designs or with names
and verses, or ornamented with drawings in colored inks, and made a
favorite gift.
[Illustration: Carved Busks]
All these constrainments and accessories contributed to a certain
thin-chested though erect appearance, which is notable in the
portraits of girls and women painted in the past century.
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