Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter — John Shaqi
Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
While play in its absorbing moments, and even afterwards, may thus
produce a genuine illusion, the state of perfect realisation is of
course apt to be broken by intervals of scepticism. This has already
been illustrated in the case of the doll. The same little boy that
played with the imaginary mice was sitting on his stool pretending to
smoke like his grandpapa out of a bit of bent cardboard. Suddenly his
face clouded over; he stroked his chin, and remarked in a disappointed
tone, "I have not got any whiskers". The dream of full manhood was here
rudely dispelled by a recall to reality.
A measure of the same fanciful transformation of things that has been
illustrated in make-believe play, a measure, too, of the illusion which
frequently accompanies it, enters, I believe, into all children's
pastimes. Whence comes the perennial charm, the undying popularity, of
the hoop? Is not the interest here due to the circumstance that the
child controls a thing which in the freedom of its movements suggests
that it has a will of its own? This seems borne out by the following
story. A little girl of five once stopped trundling her hoop and said to
her mother she thought that her hoop must be alive, because "it is so
sensible; it goes where I want it to". Perhaps the same thing may be
said of other toys, as the kite and the sailing boat.
_Serious Side of Play._
I have here treated the whole realm of childish fancy as one of play, as
one in which happy childhood finds its own sunny world. Yet it is clear
that this is after all only one side of children's dream-world. Like our
own world it has its climates, and if fancy is often frolicsome and
games deliciously sweet, they sometimes become serious to the point of a
quite dreadful solemnity.
That children's imagination is wont to hover, with something of the
fascination of the moth, on the confines of the fearful, is known to us
all. Some children, no doubt, have much more of the passion for the
gruesome and blood-curdling than others, since temperament counts for
much here; yet it is pretty safe to say that most know something of this
horrible fascination. Dreams, whether of the night or of the day, are
not always of beautiful fairies and the like. Weird, awful-looking
figures have a way of pushing themselves into the front of the scene.
Especially when the "tone" of the frail young nerves runs down from poor
health do these alarming shapes appear, and acquire a mighty hold on the
child's imagination. Of the timidity of the early years of life I shall
have more to say by-and-by. Here I want to bring out how the very
vividness of children's images exposes them to what is sometimes at
least their worst form of suffering.
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