Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
It is often asked whether children have as lively, as intense feelings
as their elders. Those emotions of childhood which are wont to break out
into violent expression, such as angry disappointment and gladness, may
not, it is said, be in themselves so intense as they look. In order to
get more data for settling the question we must try to reach their less
demonstrative feelings, those which they are apt to hide from view out
of shame, or some other impulse. Of these none is more interesting than
fear, and it so happens that a good deal of inquiry has of late been
directed to this feeling.
That we must not expect too much knowledge here seems certain. Fear is
one of the shyest of the young feelings. A little fellow of two coming
out of his grandpapa's house one evening into the darkness with his
mother, asked her: "Would you like to take hold of my hand, mammy?" His
father took this to mean the beginning of boyish determination not to
show fear. Still, with the help of observations of parents, and later
confessions and descriptions of childish fear, we may be able to get
some insight into the dark subject.
That fear is one of the characteristic feelings of children needs, one
supposes, no proving. In spite of the wonderful stories of Horatio
Nelson, and of their reflections in literature, _e.g._, Mr. Barrie's
"Sentimental Tommy," I entertain the gravest doubts as to the existence
of a perfectly fearless child. Children differ enormously, and the same
child differs enormously at different times in the intensity of his
fear, but they all have the characteristic _disposition_ to fear. It
seems to belong to these wee, weakly things, brought face to face with a
new strange world, to tremble. They are naturally timid, as all that is
weak and ignorant in nature is apt to be timid.
I have said that fear is well marked in the child. Yet, though it is
true that a state of "being afraid" when fully developed shows itself by
unmistakable signs, there are many cases where it is by no means easy to
say whether the child experiences the feeling. People are apt to think
that every time a child starts it is feeling afraid of something, but as
we shall presently see, being startled and really frightened are two
experiences, which, though closely related, must be carefully
distinguished. A child may, further, show a sort of æsthetic repugnance
to certain sounds, such as those of a piano; to ugly forms, _e.g._, a
hunch-back figure; to particular touches, such as that of fur or velvet,
without having the full experience of fear. Observers of children are by
no means careful to distinguish true fear from other feelings which
resemble it.
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