Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
While a child is thus apt to think of God as nicer than the nicest
gentleman visitor who is wont to bring toys and do wondrous things for
his delectation, he commonly imports into his conception a touch of
human caprice. Fear may readily suggest to a child who has had some
orthodox instruction that the wind howling at night is the noise of
God's anger, or that the thunder is due to a sudden determination of the
Creator to shoot him dead. The sceptical child, again, who is by no
means so rare, may early begin to wonder how God can be so good and yet
allow men to kill animals, and allow Satan to do such a lot of wicked
things.
One of the hardest puzzles set to a child by the common religious
instruction is the doctrine of God's eternity. The idea of a vast,
endless "for ever," whether past or future, seems to be positively
overwhelming to many young minds. The continual frustration of the
attempt to reach a resting-place in a beginning or an end may bring on
something of mental giddiness. Hence the wearisome perplexities of the
first thoughts about God's past. The question, "Who made God?" seems to
be one to which all inquiring young minds are led at a certain stage of
child-thought. When told that God has always been, unchanging, and
knowing no youth, he wants to get behind this "always was," just as at
an earlier stage of his development he wanted to get behind the barrier
of the blue hills.
Other mysteries of the orthodox faith may undergo a characteristic
solution in the hard-working mind of a child. A friend tells me that
when a child he was much puzzled by the doctrine of the Trinity. He
happened to be an only child, and so he was led to put a meaning into it
by likening it to his own family group, in which the Holy Ghost had,
rather oddly, to take the place of the mother.
Thoughtful children by odd processes of early logic are apt when
interpreting the words and actions of their teachers to endow God with
surprising attributes. For example, a boy of four asked his aunt one
Sunday to tell him why God was so fond of three-penny bits. Asked why he
thought God had this particular liking, he explained by saying that he
noticed that on Sunday morning people ask for a three-penny bit "instead
of" three pennies, and that as they take it to church he supposed that
they gave it to God.
I have tried to show that the more thoughtful children seek to put
meaning into the communications about the unseen world which they are
wont to receive from their elders. Perhaps these elders if they knew
what is apt to go on in a child's mind would reconsider some of the
answers which they give to the little questioner, and select with more
care the truths which, as they flatter themselves, they are making so
plain to their little ones.
CHAPTER VII.
THE BATTLE WITH FEARS: (_a_) THE ONSLAUGHT.
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