Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
Here, again, we may see two opposed impulses at work, of which either
one or the other may be uppermost in different children, or at different
times in the same child. The dread of new clothes has its natural
antagonist in the love of new clothes, which is often supported in
children of a "subjective" turn by a feeling of something like disgrace
at having to go on wearing the same clothes so long. Sometimes the love
of novelty becomes a passion. The boy Alfred de Musset at the age of
four, watching his mother fitting on his feet a pair of pretty red
shoes, exclaimed: "Dépèche-toi, maman, mes souliers neufs vont devenir
vieux".
Some other fears closely resemble that of new clothes insomuch as they
involve an unpleasant transformation of a familiar object, the human
figure, the mainstay of a child's trust. Possibly the alarming effect of
making faces, which is said to disturb a child within the first three
months, illustrates the effect of shock at the spoiling of what is
getting familiar and liked. The donning of a pair of dark spectacles, by
extinguishing the focus of childish interest, the eye, will produce a
like effect of the uncanny. Children show a similar dislike and fear at
the sight of an ugly doll with features greatly distorted from the
familiar pattern.
The fear of certain big objects contains, I think, the germ of this
feeling of uneasiness in the presence of strange surroundings. One of
the best illustrations of this is produced by a first sight of the sea.
Some children clearly show signs of alarm, nestling towards their nurses
when they are carried near the edge of the water. Yet here, again, the
behaviour of the childish mind varies greatly. A little boy who first
saw the sea at the age of thirteen months exhibited signs not of fear
but of wondering delight, prettily stretching out his tiny hands towards
it as if wanting to go to it.
I am disposed to think that imaginative children, whose minds take in
something of the bigness of the sea, are more susceptible of this
variety of fear. This conjecture is borne out by the case of two
sisters, of whom one, an imaginative child, had not even at the age of
six got over her fear of going into the sea, whereas the sister, who was
comparatively unimaginative, was perfectly fearless. The supposition
finds a further confirmation in the descriptions given by imaginative
writers of their early impressions of the sea, for example, that of M.
Pierre Loti in his volume _Le Roman d'un Enfant_.
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