I take a real pleasure in recalling the kindly sayings of this old-world
sage, who, it must be remembered, lived 600 years before the birth of our
Lord, a fact which ought to silence those who are accustomed to speak
flippantly of the barbarism of past centuries. Moreover, the laws and
customs advocated by Confucius had really been in force, in what was
then called the "Middle State," for no less than 2500 years before the
Christian era, but they had fallen into abeyance. The great philosopher
was not so much an innovator as a restorer, for so lofty was the morality
of the ancient laws that the Chinese people never dreamt of modifying
them. Hence the extraordinary immobility of the manners and customs of the
Orient, which contrasts so forcibly with the constant eagerness in the
West for meaningless novelties. To give an account of the doctrines of
Confucius is really to revive the traditions of the remote past, for which
the Celestials have so deep a reverence. To give but one case in point:
noticing that all mandarins have a phœnix with outspread wings embroidered
on their robes, I inquired what it meant, and learnt to my astonishment
that in the year 500 B.C. an Emperor had ordered this design to be worn
by his chief officers on their breasts. The fabulous phœnix, the herald
of good fortune so often seen in China, had appeared to this Emperor on
his ascent to the throne; a sure symbol in the eyes of the Chinese of a
prosperous reign, and the conservative Mandarins have kept up the custom
of wearing a representation of the bird with outstretched wings ever since.
For the benefit of those who do not rightly reverence antiquity, I will
quote a speech on the subject of marriage, addressed by Confucius to the
King of Lu before the great philosopher was exiled from the kingdom he had
ruled over so wisely.
"Marriage," said the sage, "is the right state for man, because it is
only through marriage that he can fulfil his destiny upon earth; there
is therefore nothing more honourable, nothing more worthy of his serious
consideration than his power of fulfilling exactly all duties. Amongst
these are some shared in common by both sexes, others which are to be
performed by each sex in particular. The man is the head, it is for him
to command; the woman is subject to him, it is for her to obey. It is
the function of both together to imitate those operations of the heaven
and the earth which combine in the production, the support, and the
preservation of all things. Reciprocal tenderness, mutual confidence,
truthfulness and respect, should form the foundation of their conduct;
instruction and direction on the part of the husband, docility and
complaisance on the part of the woman, in everything which does not
interfere with the requirements of justice, propriety, and honour.
[Illustration: FIG. 29.--A YOUNG CHINESE MARRIED LADY.]
[Sidenote: CHINESE WIDOWS]
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