Perhaps, in any case, this was unlikely. There were many conflicting
elements therein. Whatever may be preached, and even practiced
sometimes, satisfactorily, about the advantages of communism, the law
of nature is that a family be distinct within itself--should consist
of father, mother, and children, and them only. Any extraneous
relationships admitted therein are always difficult and generally
impossible. In this household, long ruled theoretically by Miss
Gascoigne, and practically by Phillis, who was the cleverest and most
determined woman in it, the elements of strife were always smoldering,
and frequently bursting out into a flame. The one bone of contention
was, as might be expected, the children--who should rule them, and
whether that rule was to be one of love or fear,
Christian, though young, was neither ignorant nor inexperienced; and
when, day by day and week by week, she had to sit still and see that
saddest of all sights to a tender heart, children slowly ruined,
exasperated by injustice, embittered by punishment, made deceitful or
cowardly by continual fear, her spirit wakened up to its full dignity of
womanhood and motherhood.
"They are my children, and I will not have things thus," was her
continual thought. But how to effect her end safely and unobnoxiously
was, as it always is, the great difficulty.
She took quiet methods at first--principally the very simple one of
loving the children till they began to love her. Oliver, and by-and-by
Letitia, seized every chance of escaping out of the noisy nursery, where
Phillis boxed, or beats or scolded all day long, to mother's quiet room,
where they always found a gentle word and a smile--a little rivulet from
that
_"Constant stream of love which knew no fail"_
which was Cowper's fondest memory of his mother, and which should
be perpetually flowing out from the hearts of all mothers toward all
children. These poor children had never known it till now.
Their little hearts opened to it, and bathed in it as in a fountain of
joy. It washed away all their small naughtinesses, made them strong and
brave, gradually lessened the underhandedness of the girl, the roughness
and selfishness of the boy, and turned the child Oliver into a little
angel--that is, if children ever are angels except in poetry; but it is
certain, and Christian often shuddered to see it, that mismanagement and
want of love can change them into little demons.
And at last there came a day when, passive resistance being useless, she
had to strike with strong hand; the resolute hand which, as before
seen, Christian, gentle as she was, could lift up against injustice, and
especially injustice shown to children.
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