Another method operates more energetically and thoroughly; it regards
reality as the source of all suffering, as the one and only enemy,
with whom life is intolerable and with whom therefore all relations
must be broken off if one is to be happy in any way at all. The hermit
turns his back on this world; he will have nothing to do with it. But
one can do more than that; one can try to re-create it, try to build up
another instead, from which the most unbearable features are eliminated
and replaced by others corresponding to one’s own wishes. He who in
his despair and defiance sets out on this path will not as a rule get
very far; reality will be too strong for him. He becomes a madman and
usually finds no one to help him in carrying through his delusion. It
is said, however, that each one of us behaves in some respect like the
paranoiac, substituting a wish-fulfilment for some aspect of the world
which is unbearable to him, and carrying this delusion through into
reality. When a large number of people make this attempt together and
try to obtain assurance of happiness and protection from suffering by a
delusional transformation of reality it acquires special significance.
The religions of humanity, too, must be classified as mass-delusions of
this kind. Needless to say, no one who shares a delusion recognizes it
as such.
I do not suppose that I have enumerated all the methods by which men
strive to win happiness and keep suffering at bay, and I know, too,
that the material might have been arranged differently. One of these
methods I have not yet mentioned at all—not because I had forgotten
it, but because it will interest us in another connection. How would
it be possible to forget this way of all others of practising the art
of life! It is conspicuous for its remarkable capacity to combine
characteristic features. Needless to say, it, too, strives to bring
about independence of fate—as we may best call it—and with this object
it looks for satisfaction within the mind, and uses the capacity for
displacing libido which we mentioned before, but it does not turn
away from the outer world; on the contrary, it takes a firm hold of
its objects and obtains happiness from an emotional relation to them.
Nor is it content to strive for avoidance of pain—that goal of weary
resignation; rather it passes that by heedlessly and holds fast to
the deep-rooted, passionate striving for a positive fulfilment of
happiness. Perhaps it really comes nearer to this goal than any other
method. I am speaking, of course, of that way of life which makes love
the centre of all things and anticipates all happiness from loving and
being loved. This attitude is familiar enough to all of us; one of the
forms in which love manifests itself, sexual love, gives us our most
intense experience of an overwhelming pleasurable sensation and so
furnishes a prototype for our strivings after happiness. What is more
natural than that we should persist in seeking happiness along the path
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