United States -- Social life and customs -- To 1775; Women -- United States
The Gentlemans Parents keep Open house just in the same manner as the
Brides Parents. The Gentlemen go from the Bridegroom house to drink
punch with and give Joy to his Father. The Brides visitors go in the
same manner from the Brides to her mothers to pay their compliments to
her. There is so much driving about at these times that in our narrow
streets there is some danger. The Wedding house resembles a beehive.
Company perpetually flying in and out.
In a new country, with novel methods of living, and unusual social
relations, there were some wild and furious wooings. None were more
coarsely extraordinary than the courting of young Mistress Burwell by
the Governor of the colony of Virginia, an intemperate, blustering
English ruffian named Nicholson. He demanded her hand in an Orientally
autocratic manner, and when neither she nor her parents regarded him
with favor, his rage and determination knew no bounds. He threatened
the lives of her father and mother “with mad furious distracted
speech.” When Parson Fouace came, meekly riding to visit poor Mr.
Burwell, his parishioner, who was sick (naturally enough), the Governor
set upon him with words of abuse, pulled the clerical hat off, drew
his sword, and threatened the clerical life, until the parson fled in
dismay. Fancying that the brother of Commissary Blair, the President of
the Virginia College, was a would-be suitor to his desired fair one, he
assailed the President with insane jealousy, saying, “Sir, your brother
is a villain and you have betrayed me,” and he swore revenge on the
entire family. To annoy further the good President, he lent his pistols
to the wicked college boys that they might thus keep the President
out of the college buildings. He vowed if Mistress Burwell married
any one but himself he would cut the throat of bridegroom, minister,
and justice who issued the marriage license. The noise of his abuse
reached England, and friends wrote from thence protesting letters to
him. At last the Council united and succeeded in procuring his removal.
Poor President Blair did not fare well under other governors, and both
College and President were fiercely hated by Governor Andros; and “a
sparkish young gentleman,” the grandfather of Martha Washington’s first
husband, to show his zeal for his gubernatorial friend, went into
church and “with great fury and violence” pulled Mrs. Blair out of her
pew in the face of the minister and the whole congregation--and this in
the stately old cavalier days.
One very curious duty devolved on young girls at that day. They often
served as pall-bearers. At the funeral of Mrs. Daniel Phœnix the
pall-bearers were women, and when Mrs. John Morgan, sister of Francis
Hopkinson, died in Philadelphia, her brother wrote of her funeral:--
The morning was snowy and severely cold, and the walking very
dangerous and slippery, never the less a number of respectable
citizens attended the funeral and the pall was borne by the first
ladies of the place.
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