New York (State) -- History -- Colonial period, ca. 1600-1775; New York (State) -- Social life and customs -- To 1775
When Philip Livingstone died, in 1749, his funeral was held both in
New York and at the Manor. He had lived in Broad Street, and the lower
rooms of his house and those of his neighbors were thrown open to
receive the assemblage. A pipe of wine was spiced for the guests, and
the eight bearers were each given a pair of gloves, a mourning-ring,
a scarf, handkerchief, and a monkey-spoon. At the Manor a similar
ceremony took place, and a pair of gloves and handkerchief were given
to each tenant. The whole expense was five hundred pounds. When Madam
Livingstone died, we find her son writing to New York from the Manor
for a piece of black Strouds to cover the four hearse-horses; for
a “Barrell of Cutt Tobacco and Long Pipes of which I am out;” for
six silver tankards and cinnamon for the burnt wine; he said he had
bottles, decanters, and glasses enough. The expense of these funerals
may have been the inspiration for William Livingstone’s paper on
extravagance in funerals.
A monkey-spoon was a handsome piece of silver bearing the figure or
head of an ape on the handle. _Mannetiens_ spoons, also used in New
Netherland, were similar in design. At the funeral of Henry De Forest,
an early resident of New Harlem in 1637, his bearers were given spoons.
A familiar and extreme example of excess at funerals as told by Judge
Egbert Benson was at the obsequies of Lucas Wyngaard, an old bachelor
who died in Albany in 1756. The attendance was very large, and after
the burial a large number of the friends of the dead man returned
to the house, and literally made a night of it. These sober Albany
citizens drank up a pipe of wine, and smoked many pounds of tobacco.
They broke hundreds of pipes and all the decanters and glasses in the
house, and wound up by burning all their funeral scarfs in a heap in
the fireplace.
In Albany the expense, as well as the rioting, of funerals seems to
have reached a climax. It is said that the obsequies of the first
wife of Hon. Stephen Van Rensselaer cost twenty thousand dollars. Two
thousand linen scarfs were given, and all the tenants were entertained
for several days.
On Long Island every young man of good family began in his youth to
lay aside money in gold coin to pay for his funeral; and a superior
stock of wine was also saved for the same occasion. In Albany the cask
of choice Madeira which was bought for a wedding and used in part, was
saved in remainder for the funeral of the bridegroom.
The honor of a lavish funeral was not given to the wealthy and great
and distinguished only. The close of every life, no matter how humble,
how unsuccessful, was through the dignity conferred by death afforded a
triumphal exit by the medium of “a fine burying.”
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