New York (State) -- History -- Colonial period, ca. 1600-1775; New York (State) -- Social life and customs -- To 1775
“The Gentlemen’s Parents keep Open house just in the same manner as
the Bride’s Parents. The Gentlemen go from the Bridegroom’s house to
drink Punch with and give Joy to his Father. The Bride’s visitors
go in the same manner from the Bride’s to her mother’s to pay their
compliments to her. There is so much driving about at these times
that in our narrow streets there is some danger. The Wedding-house
resembles a bee-hive. Company perpetually flying in and out.”
All this was in vogue by the middle of the last century. There was no
leaving home by bride and groom just when every one wanted them,--no
tiresome, tedious wedding-journey; all cheerfully enjoyed the presence
of the bride, and partook of the gayety the wedding brought. In the
country, up the Hudson and on Long Island, it was lengthened out by a
bride-visiting,--an entertaining of the bridal party from day to day
by various hospitable friends and relations for many miles around; and
this bride-visiting was usually made on horseback.
Let us picture a bride-visiting in spring-time on Long Island, where,
as Hendrick Hudson said, “the land was pleasant with grass and flowers
and goodly trees as ever seen, and very sweet smells came therefrom.”
The fair bride, with her happy husband; the gayly dressed bridesmaids,
in silken petticoats, and high-heeled scarlet shoes, with rolled and
powdered hair dressed with feathers and gauze, riding a-pillion behind
the groom’s young friends, in satin knee-breeches, and gay coats and
cocked hats,--all the accompanying young folk in the picturesque and
gallant dress of the times, and gay with laughter and happy voices,--a
sight pretty to see in the village streets, or, fairer still, in the
country lanes, where the woods were purely starred and gleaming with
the radiant dogwood; or roads where fence-lines were “white with
blossoming cherry-trees as if touched with lightest snow;” or where
pink apple-blossoms flushed the fields and dooryards; or, sweeter
far, where the flickering shadows fell through a bridal arch of the
pale green feathery foliage of the abundant flowering locust-trees,
whose beautiful hanging racemes of exquisite pink-flushed blossoms
cast abroad a sensuous perfume like orange blossoms, which fitted the
warmth, the glowing sunlight, the fair bride, the beginning of a new
life;--let us picture in our minds this June bride-visiting; we have
not its like to-day in quaintness, simplicity, and beauty.
CHAPTER IV
TOWN LIFE
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