mimicking her mistress in manners, and attempting to outshine her in
dress! It is impossible not to conceive a bad opinion of that servant,
both as to her judgment and heart. It is very evident that more attention
is given to dressing up her own person, than to doing her mistress’s
work, and that she prefers a bright ribbon, or gaudy artificial flower,
to the power of occasionally helping an old father and mother, or a sick
sister, or relation, or if no such claims are upon her, of putting what
she can spare from necessary articles of clothing into the savings’
bank, so as to ensure a small fund for times of sickness or for her own
old age. Let no one think that a shilling, or even a much smaller sum,
is not worth the laying up, and that it may therefore be as well made
use of in the indulgence of some piece of dress or amusement, and that
those presents of money which a servant may occasionally receive from
her mistress’s visitors, may lawfully be employed in the purchase of
imitation lace, or some such piece of useless finery. There is certainly
no moral law against her spending, as she chooses, what is her own, but
in so spending it she injures herself materially. It is not meant that
in anxiety to save she should be shabby or mean in her appearance, but
a gown of cotton, or woollen stuff, will last double the time of one of
a thinner texture, and in it she will be better dressed because made
properly; and she would do well to remember, that even a few half-pence
saved at a time, will soon amount to a shilling, and even a single
shilling will be received in a savings’ bank; and that if the half-crowns
given to her from time to time were added to those lesser savings, and
such a wise habit were begun on a girl first going to service, and
continued as her wages increase, the money thus placed will have doubled
itself again and again before old age comes on, and the feeling of
independence will not only increase the enjoyment of the present moment,
but greatly brighten the future, for even the most unthinking servants
must sometimes look forward with dread to that day, when their services
will be rejected, and when old age will come upon them, before either
friends or money have been provided. A silly flaunting girl, who spends
all upon her person, and is for ever changing her situation, from the
hope of higher wages, or getting into a gayer family, cannot expect, in
poverty or old age, to be assisted by those who probably were only too
happy to get rid of her imperfect services. Whereas, a girl whose heart
is in her work, and in the wish to save her mistress trouble in every
possible way, and who never enters her presence but with an appearance
so neat and modest, as constantly to ensure her respect and approbation,
may one day come to be looked upon more as a friend than a servant, and
to assist her endeavours at independence in the time of sickness or old
age, will be considered as a real pleasure. A good mistress will esteem
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