We may be conformed to the world _in our intercourse with society_. As
long as we are in this life we are thrown into the midst of other men;
and, as members of society, we are bound by the duties of social life.
There are kind neighbours all around us, many of whom, we may fear, are
still men of the world, but who are associated with us through business
and the ties of neighbourhood. How, then, should we act in society when
we really desire not to be conformed to the world? I do not think that
the Christian is to show himself an exclusive man. ‘He that hath friends
must show himself friendly;’ and there are many things which he may, and
even ought to do, to all around him.
He should be in all cases a friendly, obliging, and unselfish neighbour.
He should be open at any time to kind and friendly intercourse.
He should be ever ready to help his neighbours in all that concerns
either them or their families.
He should be diligently seeking to promote the happiness of all who are
brought into contact with him.
And all this without ever stopping to consider whether they are the
children of God or not.
I believe, also, that he may safely join with them in social life. Our
Lord did it, and therefore they who desire to follow Him may do it
likewise. But let us all remember, what we are sometimes apt to forget
when we look to His example, that we must be prepared to follow Him
_throughout_, and go, as He went, wherever we go, as faithful witnesses
for God. Our Lord accepted the invitation of Simon the Pharisee; but He
never forgot His character or mission; and before He left the
dinner-table He both reproved Simon, and saved the poor sinner that came
trembling to His feet. My belief is that this is the true solution of
all the questions that arise respecting social intercourse with men of
the world. I see great difficulty in artificial rules; but I believe
that, when Christian men seek for God’s grace to adorn the Gospel
wherever they are, they will soon find that society sorts itself. If
Simon the Pharisee, or Zaccheus the Publican, ask them to dinner, let
them go, and let them recognise the hospitality of their friend. But let
them be sure they first seek God’s grace that they go as Christian
witnesses, and they will find practically that, unless their Master is
welcomed as well as themselves, they will not be perplexed by many more
invitations. If they go on the principle of leaving all their
Christianity at home, the case is of course different. They will then be
sought for by the world, for the simple reason that they are conformed to
it; for nothing do worldly men prize more than the implied sanction of
those who bear a high name as religious characters. ‘We cannot be
wrong,’ say they, ‘for Mr. So-and-So was here; and we all know what an
excellent man he is.’ Conformity to the world does not consist in going
to the dinner, but in changing our character as well as our dress, and
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