Crying for the Light; Or, Fifty Years Ago. Vol. 3 [of 3]Ritchie, J. Ewing (James Ewing)
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Crying for the Light; Or, Fifty Years Ago. Vol. 3 [of 3]
Ritchie, J. Ewing (James Ewing)
England -- Social conditions -- 19th century -- Fiction
‘And worst of all,’ said Wentworth, laughing, ‘we got married—’
‘At the registrar’s office,’ said Rose, shrugging up her shoulders and
making a face with a sad expression of horror, adding, after an interval:
‘And I don’t believe anyone knows it yet.’
‘So much the better. What has the world got to do with our private
affairs? What to us is the world or the world’s laws?’
‘Upon my word, Wentworth, you are talking as improperly as ever.’
‘Yes. I fear I’ve got that bad habit, and I don’t expect I shall ever
get rid of it as long as I live. You and I can talk plainly. We need
not try to humbug each other. It is little we have to trouble ourselves
about Mrs. Grundy. The law has bound us together, but we are bound
together by something stronger than the law, I hope.’
‘Hope, Wentworth, is not the word. You know it,’ said Rose, as she
lovingly looked into his somewhat grave and worn face.
On board the steamer thus the newly-married couple talked. Marriages are
of many kinds. For some we have to thank God, for others, alas! the
devil.
Referring to his marriage, William Hutton, the far-famed Birmingham
historian, writes: ‘I never courted her, nor she me, yet we, by the close
union with which we were cemented, were travelling towards the temple of
Hymen without conversing upon the subject. Such is the happy effect of
reciprocal love.’ This reciprocal love generally leads to matrimony, and
thus it was Rose and Wentworth had married. A good deal is to be said
against the institution. Matrimony is not always a bed of roses. If the
roses are there, they are often furnished with an intolerable supply of
thorns. There can be no doubt of the fact that in many cases matrimony
has led to an immense amount of misery. It has kept in chains men and
women who had been better apart. It has made for them life dull, blank,
sunless, joyless, a thing only to terminate with death. It is hard that
men and women thus ill-mated are not permitted to burst their fetters and
be free. Take, for instance, the case of Mehetabel Wesley, the younger
sister of the celebrated founder of Wesleyanism. Her heart was sensitive
and full of love. We know what the mother of the Wesleys was—a stern,
hard woman, whose first duty as a mother, according to her own statement,
was to break the wills of her children. The father left his wife’s bed
because, when he prayed for King William, she would not say amen. None
of the girls seemed to have married happily, but this, the youngest and
fairest of them all, had a Benjamin’s mess of misery. Her father
compelled her to suffer the brutality of a marriage with a low wretch
utterly unfit to be her lord and master. Was not her marriage an
immorality? Was it not a shame that society should have compelled her to
live with such a man?—so much so ‘that her only hope,’ as she told a
friend, was death, ‘because we Methodists always die in transports of
joy.’ But what do men and women know of each other, as a rule, before
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