Curiosities of Music: A Collection of Facts not generally known, regarding the Music of Ancient and Savage NationsElson, Louis Charles
History
Curiosities of Music: A Collection of Facts not generally known, regarding the Music of Ancient and Savage Nations
Elson, Louis Charles
Music -- History and criticism
In this treatise we are supplied with a minute account of the
accomplishments expected from a well educated young lady, and of the bad
habits most prejudicial to her character. The poet is supposed to be
addressing a noble damsel living at the court of some great baron, as a
sort of ‘lady help’ to his wife; this being a not unusual, and
undoubtedly a most efficient method of polite education in Provence. The
young lady has accosted Amanieus on a lonely walk, asking for his advice
in matters fashionable. This the poet at first refuses to tender,
alleging that “you (the damsel) have ten times as much sense as I, and
that is the truth!” But after his modest scruples are once overcome, he
launches forth into a flood of good counsel. He systematically begins
with enforcing the good old doctrine of ‘early to rise,’ touches
delicately on the mysteries of the toilet, such as lacing, washing of
arms, hands, and head, which, he sententiously adds, ought to go before
the first mentioned process, and, after briefly referring to the
especial care required by teeth and nails, he leaves the dressing room
for the church, where a quiet undemonstrative attitude is recommended;
the illicit use of the eyes and tongue being mentioned amongst the
temptations peculiarly to be avoided.
Directions of similar minuteness assist the young lady at the dinner
table; the cases in which it would be good taste, and those in which it
would be the reverse, to invite persons to a share of the dishes within
her reach are specified; and the rules as to carving, washing one’s
hands before and after dinner, and similar matters, leave nothing to be
desired. ‘Always temper your wine with water, so that it cannot do you
harm,’ is another maxim of undeniable wisdom.
After dinner follows the time of polite conversation in the sala
(drawing room), the arbour, or on the battlements of the castle; and now
the teachings of Amanieus become more and more animated, and are
enlivened occasionally by practical illustrations of great interest.
“And if at this season,” he says “a gentleman takes you aside, and
wishes to talk of courtship to you, do not show a strange or sullen
behavior, but defend yourself with pleasant repartees. And if his talk
annoys you; and makes you uneasy, I advise you to ask him questions, for
instance:—‘Which ladies do you think are more handsome, those of Gascony
or of England, and which are more courteous, and faithful, and good? And
if he says those of Gascony, answer without hesitation; Sir, by your
leave, English ladies are more courteous than those of any other
country. But if he prefers those of England, tell him Gascon ladies are
much better behaved, and thus carry on the discussion, and call your
companions to you to decide the questions.’”
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