Christian fiction; Conduct of life -- Fiction; Fathers and daughters -- Fiction; Misers -- Fiction
"It isn't so very astonishing," said Mrs. Simmons. "Stands to reason, a
man don't care to waste his time in ornamenting a pig-stye."
"Oh, Mrs. Simmons, it wasn't a pig-stye," said Janet, rather hurt.
"Well no, my dear, it wasn't," said Mrs. Simmons. "Folks don't spend
their whole lives in scouring and scrubbing of a pig-stye, and that's
what you did, pretty nearly. But for all your scouring and scrubbing,
you didn't get the place clean, Mrs. Humphrey."
"No, I didn't," assented Janet meekly. "I suppose it was because I
hadn't regular times for regular work, and somehow I never seemed to
finish anything off."
"Just that exactly," said Mrs. Simmons. "Well, and how are the
children? I hope Janey's getting to be a help to you."
"Oh, she's only a child yet," said Janet.
"She isn't too much of a child to be trained into womanly ways," said
Mrs. Simmons. "Now, Mrs. Humphrey, don't you give in to being one of
them selfish mothers, as are always slaving for a lot of idle children,
and never making the children do a hand's turn for themselves."
"Selfish!" Janet repeated in astonishment.
"Selfish—yes. Of course it's selfish," said Mrs. Simmons; "and lazy
into the bargain. Of course it's a deal less trouble to do a thing
yourself, than to teach Janey how to do it, more particularly if Janey
gets a troublesome fit and won't try. But it isn't a question of just
now only; it's a question of by-and-by as well. You've got to prepare
Janey for being a woman; and one of the first lessons you ought to
teach her is how to work. Half the wives and mothers of the present day
are pretty nearly useless, because they've never learnt how to work."
"I shouldn't wonder," said Janet.
"Shouldn't wonder! Why, can't you see it for yourself? Children are
left to grow up anyhow, and to scramble into any sorts of ways and
habits, and then people expect 'em somehow suddenly to change into
sensible hard-working useful women, with no trouble ever taken to make
them so. O yes, they go to school, of course. But school can't do what
I mean. School don't teach them to be useful and thoughtful and tidy
in their own homes. School don't teach them scrubbing and washing, and
dusting and cooking. Only a mother can teach them all that, or somebody
in a mother's place. And mind you, it won't come by nature. Bees gather
honey by nature, but girls don't scour and darn by nature."
"Well, I'm sure I never thought about teaching Janey such things," said
Janet. "I thought it would all come by-and-by. And she hasn't got much
time yet, what with schooling and all. She don't mind nursing the baby
for me, when she's in."
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