From Philadelphia, _A Sister_ writes: ‘You have a subject discussed in
your magazine which at this present time is very interesting to me. I
refer to the personal chastisement of children. My case is this. I
have my two younger sisters to bring up (their mother being dead), and
I feel great difficulty in making them obey. They are often extremely
disobedient and naughty. The only punishment that I have inflicted on
them is a box on the ears, or sending them to bed, neither of which I
find does them any good. Their father has given me full control over
them, and says if I find it well to whip them to do so; but I would
first like to ask some elder sister who has had the bringing up of
some younger ones if it is well for a sister to administer corporal
punishment? I see none of the letters in your magazine are from
sisters, or I would not have troubled you with this. I see most of your
correspondents advocate a bunch of twigs as the best instrument of
correction. I should like to ask if they leave any marks for any length
of time, when applied without covering; because I do not wish to be too
severe, although I should like the punishment to be effectual.
By inserting this as soon as possible, you will greatly oblige.’
A lady, signing _Experience_, writes: ‘As many of your readers seem
anxious to know how to punish girls of fifteen years old and upwards, I
take the liberty of informing you that about three years ago my eldest
girl gave me a good deal of trouble by disregarding my directions and
orders. She was then turned sixteen, was home from school for her
holidays, and evidently thought that under those circumstances she was
entitled to do just what she pleased.
I spoke to her two or three times very seriously, and at last
threatened that if she continued to disregard what I said to her I
should be compelled to enforce my orders with the birch. When my
children were little I had been used, if they were naughty, to lay
them across my knee and whip them with my slipper or a small birchrod,
but now this mode of procedure was not available, as my daughter was
too big for that treatment, and would only laugh at the slight pat
she would receive. It being a real struggle for the mastery, it was
important that my authority should be supported, and if it were not for
this I do not think that I should have whipped her at all. What I did
was this: I bought a birch broom and took from it twenty long, stiff,
and bushy switches, tied them together with string, the handle being
about as thick as my wrist.
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