Divorce versus DemocracyChesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Philosophy
Divorce versus Democracy
Chesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Divorce
If you are a democrat who likes also to be an honest man--if (in other
words) you want to know what the people want and not merely what you can
somehow induce them to ask for--then there is no doubt at all that this
is what they want. You can only realise it by looking for human nature
elsewhere than in election reports; but when you have once looked for it
you see it and you never forget it. From the fact that every one thinks
it natural that young men and women should carve names on trees, to the
fact that every one thinks it unnatural that old men and women should be
separated in workhouses, millions and millions of daily details prove
that people do regard the relation as normally permanent; not as a
vision, but as a vow.
Now for the exceptions, true or false. I would note a strange and even
silly oversight in the discussion of such exceptions, which has haunted
most arguments for further divorce. The ordinary emancipated prig or
poet who urges this side of the question always talks to one tune.
“Marriage may be the best for most men,” he says, “but there are
exceptional natures that demand a more undulating experience; constancy
will do for the common herd, but there are complex natures and complex
cases where no one could recommend constancy. I do not ask (at the
present Stage of Progress) for the abolition of marriage; I hereby ask
that it may be remitted in such individual and extreme examples.”
Now it is perfectly astounding to me that any one who has walked about
this world should make such a blunder about the breed we call mankind.
Surely it is plain enough that if you ask for dreadful exceptions, you
will get them--too many of them. Let me take once again a rough parable.
Suppose I advertised in the papers that I had a place for any one who
was too stupid to be a clerk. Probably I should receive no replies;
possibly one. Possibly also (nay, probably) it would be from the one man
who was not stupid at all. But suppose I had advertised that I had a
place for any one who was too clever to be a clerk. My office would be
instantly besieged by all the most hopeless fools in the four kingdoms.
To advertise for exceptions is simply to advertise for egoists. To
advertise for egoists is to advertise for idiots. It is exactly the bore
who does think that his case is interesting. It is precisely the really
common person who does think that his case is uncommon. It is always the
dull man who does think himself rather wild. To ask solely for strange
experiences of the soul is simply to let loose all the imbecile asylums
about one’s ears. Whatever other theory is right, this theory of the
exceptions is obviously wrong--or (what matters more to our modern
atheists) is obviously unbusinesslike. It is, moreover, to any one with
popular political sympathies, a very deep and subtle sort of treason. By
thus putting a premium on the exceptional we grossly deceive the
unconsciousness of the normal. It seems strangely forgotten that the
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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