Dorothy Payne, Quakeress: A Side-Light Upon the Career of 'Dolly' MadisonBarnard, Ella K. (Ella Kent)
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Dorothy Payne, Quakeress: A Side-Light Upon the Career of 'Dolly' Madison
Barnard, Ella K. (Ella Kent)
Madison, Dolley, 1768-1849
"Pine Street meeting house was amazingly crowded, a number of gay
folks--I heard a young man say he was surprised on viewing the
galleries, as they had more the appearance of a play house than of
Friends' meeting. There were great affronts given, I am told, when
Dolly retired in the other room to pass by Nicholas Waln, rising
and saying 'it was not customary for those that do not belong,
unless near connections, to go into meetings of business'--but some
were so rude as to press in without any kind of ceremony, very
indecent behavior was too obvious to be unobserved, even by
children."[30]
[Illustration: Pine Street Meeting-House.
Built 1751.]
The "passing of meeting" was then a formidable proceeding. The intended
groom, with a friend from the men's meeting, entered the women's side
after the closing of the partitions, and taking the intended bride on
his arm announced, first in one meeting and then in the other, that "we
propose taking each other in marriage."
Many anecdotes are related of Nicholas Waln, who was a leading member of
Pine Street meeting, and had been one of the shrewdest and wittiest
lawyers of the Philadelphia bar. His words were very apt to hit the
mark.
A month later, on Dolly's wedding day, at the head of the meeting (at
Pine street) sat James Pemberton[31], "erect and immovable, with his
crossed hands resting on his gold-headed cane"; beside him "Nicholas
Waln with his smile of sunshine," "Arthur Howell[32], with hat drawn low
over his face," and "William Savery of the solemn silvery voice," and
other ministers and elders of the meeting. The body of the meeting was
composed of the solid Quaker element of the city, and the "gay folks"
again crowded the galleries to their utmost capacity. After a short
silence Dolly Payne and John Todd arose, and each repeated the solemn
marriage ceremony of the Friends, each signed the marriage certificate,
and "John Todd of the city of Philadelphia, attorney-at-law, son of John
Todd, of this city, and Mary his wife, and Dolly Payne, daughter of John
Payne of the city aforesaid, and Mary his wife," were married, 1st mo.
7th, 1790.
MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE OF JOHN TODD AND DOLLY PAYNE.
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