Dorothy Payne, Quakeress: A Side-Light Upon the Career of 'Dolly' Madison — John Shaqi
Dorothy Payne, Quakeress: A Side-Light Upon the Career of 'Dolly' MadisonBarnard, Ella K. (Ella Kent)
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Dorothy Payne, Quakeress: A Side-Light Upon the Career of 'Dolly' Madison
Barnard, Ella K. (Ella Kent)
Madison, Dolley, 1768-1849
"The enclosed account of studies and expenses, which I wish you to
return to me, you will see is made under the hand of the Reverend
Dr. Smith, provost of the college, and may therefore be relied on
for accuracy. After you and Lawrence have carefully perused and
well considered the enclosed statement, I wish you to determine
whether you will come or not. If your determination should be in
favor of coming on, I must impress this upon you in the strongest
manner, namely, that you come with good dispositions and full
resolution to pursue your studies closely, to conform to the
established rules and customs of the college and to conduct
yourselves on all occasions with decency and propriety.
"To you, George, I more particularly address myself at this time,
as from your advanced age it may be presumed that such advice, as I
am about to give will make a deeper impression upon you, than upon
your brother, and your conduct may very probably mark the line of
his, but at the same time Lawrence must remember that this is
equally applicable to him.
"Should you enter upon the course of studies here marked out, you
must consider it as the finishing of your education, and therefore
as the time is limited, that every hour misspent is lost forever,
and that future years cannot compensate for lost days at this
period of your life. This reflection must show the necessity of an
unremitting application to your studies. To point out the
importance of circumspection in your conduct, it may be proper to
observe, that a good moral character is the first essential in a
man, and that the habits contracted at your age are generally
indelible, and your conduct here may stamp your character through
life. It is therefore highly important that you should endeavor not
only to be learned, but virtuous. Much more might be said to show
the necessity of application and regularity, but since you must
know that without them you can never be qualified to render service
to your country, assistance to your friends or enjoy consolation in
your retired moments, nothing further need be said to prove their
utility.
"As to your clothes, it will, I presume, cost much the same here as
in 'Alexandria.' I shall always wish to see you clothed decently
and becoming your station; but I shall ever discountenance
extravagance or foppishness in your dress. At all times and upon
all occasions I shall be happy to give you both such marks of my
approbation as your progress and good conduct merit.
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