Earliest Years at Vassar: Personal RecollectionsWood, Frances Ann
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Earliest Years at Vassar: Personal Recollections
Wood, Frances Ann
Vassar College
Taken from fifteen years as head of an English boarding school, what
wonder that the family and social life at Vassar was formed by Miss
Lyman--as we think now--on strict and narrow lines. Hardly a trace of
the earliest regulations exists. The chaperone was once much in
evidence. A girl was not allowed to go alone even to church without
one, if under age. A young student that first year tells her
experience the first communion Sunday. Miss Lyman gave her very
cordial permission to attend the service, providing, as was customary,
a teacher of the same denomination as escort. At the outset the
teacher seemed unwilling to go to this particular church (Methodist),
and when they entered made her charge sit far back by the door. Three
times she ignored or refused a suggestion about going forward to the
altar, and finally the student rose and started off down the aisle by
herself. She wore a white sailor hat with long black ribbon streamers,
and suddenly felt a quick jerk on these by the irate teacher in
pursuit a few steps behind. "We knelt together at the altar," laughed
the victim, "but you may fancy how much good the service did me."
"What are your requisitions for a teacher?" Miss Lyman was often
asked. Her reply was characteristic:--"First she must be a lady;
second, she must be a Christian; third, she must have the faculty of
imparting knowledge, and lastly, knowledge." "Why, Miss Lyman, would
you consider being a lady the first essential of all?" "Most
certainly. I know of good Christian women I should not, on account of
their manners, like to place any girl under. Then, too, everybody
knows that the finest teacher is not necessarily the best scholar. I
have known many who had fine attainments, but were absolutely unfitted
to impart knowledge to others."
A credulous young freshman was told by her roommates that Miss Lyman,
if asked, would give out at morning prayers any hymn a student wished
sung on her birthday, that it was her custom to do so. Not stopping to
consider, the girl betakes herself to the lady principal's office and
makes known her wish for the day soon approaching. Miss Lyman,
perceiving the perfect good faith of the child, did not explain she
had been made a victim of a hoax, but left that to the friends who had
played the joke. Of course, the student was mortified. However, on the
morning of her birthday, the hymn Miss Lyman gave out was the one
asked for, and the girl never forgot the kindness that obliterated all
chagrin.
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