Educated working women: Essays on the economic position of women workers in the middle classesCollet, Clara E. (Clara Elizabeth)
History
Educated working women: Essays on the economic position of women workers in the middle classes
Collet, Clara E. (Clara Elizabeth)
Women -- Education; Women -- Employment
“Miss Eliza, to whom I was speaking, said that she had long wished
to hear something further concerning that young lady, as her mamma
very frequently proposed her as an example without mentioning the
particulars of her conduct; but as I was so happy as to be favoured
with her intimacy, she should be glad to hear a recital of those
excellences which acquired such universal approbation.
“In compliance with this request I wrote the following sheets and
dispatched them to Miss Eliza, and by her desire it is that they are
now submitted to the world; as she obligingly assured me that her
endeavours to imitate the calm disposition of the heroine of this
history had contributed so much to her own happiness, and increased
the good opinion of her friends, that she wished to have so amiable an
example made public for the advantage of others.”
And then we are given the life of Miss Jemima Placid at the age of six,
and in particular of her first visit from home to her cousins, Miss
Nelly and Miss Sally Piner, aged nine and eight years respectively.
The incidents of the story are of the kind that would happen to
children of six or seven nowadays. But the moral teaching is
representative of the ethical teaching of the time. The importance of
ease of manner and good deportment in society is constantly being
urged:
“Jemima, who had not seen her cousins since she was two years old,
had entirely forgotten them; and, as they expected to find her as
much a baby as at their last interview, they appeared like entire
strangers to each other. They welcomed their papa and mamma, and
looked at Miss Placid with silent amazement: both parties, indeed,
said the civil things they were desired, such as, ‘How do you do,
cousin?’ rather in a low and drawling tone of voice; and Miss Sally,
who was eight years old, turned her head on one side and hung on
her papa’s arm, though he tried to shake her off and desired her to
welcome Miss Placid to London, and to say she was glad to see her, to
inquire after her papa, mamma, and brothers, and, in short, to behave
politely and receive her in a becoming manner. To do this, however,
Mr. Piner found was impossible, as his daughters were not at any time
distinguished by the graces, and were always particularly awkward,
from their shyness, at a first introduction. In this place, my dear
Eliza, you must excuse me if I stop to hint at a like error in your
own conduct, and which, indeed, young ladies in general are too apt
to be inattentive to; that, as first impressions are usually the
strongest, it is of great consequence to impress your company with a
favourable opinion of your appearance. As you are acquainted with the
common forms of good breeding, you should consider that it is quite
immaterial whether you address a lady you have before seen or one
with whom you are unacquainted, since the compliments of civility are
varied only by the circumstances of your knowledge, or the different
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