Educated working women: Essays on the economic position of women workers in the middle classesCollet, Clara E. (Clara Elizabeth)
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Educated working women: Essays on the economic position of women workers in the middle classes
Collet, Clara E. (Clara Elizabeth)
Women -- Education; Women -- Employment
They say--I have heard them say it with sneering laughs many a
time--the matrimonial market is overstocked. Fathers say so likewise,
and are angry with their daughters when they observe their manœuvres;
they order them to stay at home. What do they expect them to do at
home? If you ask, they would answer, sew and cook. They expect them to
do this, and this only, contentedly, regularly, uncomplainingly, all
their lives long, as if they had no germs of faculties for anything
else--a doctrine as unreasonable to hold, as it would be that the
fathers have no faculties but for eating what their daughters cook, or
for wearing what they sew. Could men live so themselves? Would they
not be very weary? And, when there came no relief to their weariness,
but only reproaches at its slightest manifestation, would not their
weariness ferment in time to frenzy?... King of Israel, your model
of a woman is a worthy model. But are we, in these days, brought up
to be like her? Men of Yorkshire! do your daughters reach this royal
standard? Can they reach it? Can you help them to reach it? Can you
give them a field in which their faculties may be exercised and grow?
Men of England! look at your poor girls, many of them fading around
you, dropping off in consumption or decline; or, what is worse,
degenerating to sour old maids--envious, backbiting, wretched, because
life is a desert to them; or, what is worst of all, reduced to strive,
by scarce modest coquetry and debasing artifice, to gain that position
and consideration by marriage, which to celibacy is denied. Fathers!
cannot you alter these things? Perhaps not all at once; but consider
the matter well when it is brought before you, receive it as a theme
worthy of thought; do not dismiss it with an idle jest or an unmanly
insult. You would wish to be proud of your daughters and not to blush
for them--then seek for them an interest and an occupation which
shall raise them above the flirt, the manœuvrer, the mischief-making
tale-bearer. Keep your girls’ minds narrow and fettered--they will
still be a plague and a care, sometimes a disgrace to you. Cultivate
them, give them scope and work--they will be your gayest companions in
health, your tenderest nurses in sickness, your most faithful prop in
age.”
And Mary Taylor--Rose Yorke in “Shirley”--added, “Make us efficient
workers, able to earn our living in order that we may be good, useful,
healthy, self-respecting women.”
How far have we travelled in these fifty years towards Mary Taylor’s
ideal? How far is it accepted as a right one? Is it now considered a
sufficiently ambitious one?
There is no doubt that we have travelled much nearer to it than anyone
in 1850 would have foreseen, and further than many pioneers at that
period would have desired.
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