Education; Educational psychology; Moral education
To begin with, early childhood is of immeasurable importance both
medically and psychologically. These two aspects are very closely
intertwined. For example: fear will make a child breathe badly, and
breathing badly will predispose it to a variety of diseases.[17] Such
interrelations are so numerous that no one can hope to succeed with a
child’s character without some medical knowledge, or with its health
without some psychology. In both directions, most of the knowledge
required is very new, and much of it runs counter to time-honoured
traditions. Take for example the question of discipline. The great
principle in a contest with a child is: do not yield, but do not
punish. The normal parent sometimes yields for the sake of a quiet
life, and sometimes punishes from exasperation; the right method, to
be successful, requires a difficult combination of patience and power
of suggestion. This is a psychological example; fresh air is a medical
example. Given care and wisdom, children profit by constant fresh air,
day and night, with not too much clothing. But if care and wisdom are
absent, the risk of chills from wet or sudden cold cannot be ignored.
Parents cannot be expected to possess the skill or the leisure required
for the new and difficult art of dealing with young children. In
the case of uneducated parents, this is obvious; they do not know
the right methods, and if they were taught them they would remain
unconvinced. I live in an agricultural district by the sea, where
fresh food is easy to obtain, and there are no extremes of heat or
cold; I chose it largely because it is ideal for children’s health.
Yet almost all the children of the farmers, shopkeepers, and so on,
are pasty-faced languid creatures, because they are indulged in food
and disciplined in play. They never go to the beach, because wet feet
are thought dangerous. They wear thick woollen coats out-of-doors even
in the hottest summer weather. If their play is noisy, steps are taken
to make their behaviour “genteel”. But they are allowed to stay up
late, and are given all kinds of unwholesome tit-bits of grown-up food.
Their parents cannot understand why my children have not died of cold
and exposure long ago; but no object lesson will convince them that
their own methods are capable of improvement. They are neither poor
nor lacking in parental affection, but they are obstinately ignorant
owing to bad education. In the case of town parents who are poor and
overworked, the evils are of course far greater.
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