were often written under cover to the duchess’s two lady dressers,
so as to indulge in fewer formalities; also, as can be read in Mrs.
Delany’s Memoirs in letters from the duchess, nicknames were often set
up between the circle of friends, known only to themselves in case
of their being opened. This passage in the letter will point to the
formality of the circle when including Lady Oxford--
“While our present Guests are here we are so overcharged with
ceremony, we cannot move about, and as I am not (thanks to the
humility of my station), of the Countess’ cabinet council, I have
the morning to myself. To employ them to my edification, I have
laid in a great store of Italian, which I cannot read with the
Duchess as she has forgotten it so much. I have laid aside the
Arcadia[125] till Mrs. Pendarves comes, who is fond of it, and the
Duchess and I have agreed that she shall read it to us.... I beg
you will send me the receipt for York Curds, and also for Pancakes,
called ‘A quire of paper.’”
[123] Of Durham; his grandmother, wife of Gilbert Kirke, was one of
the coheiresses of Francis Layton of Rawdon.
[124] As stated in former pages, her mother, Mrs. Light, remarried
for second husband, Thomas Robinson, father by her of
Matthew Robinson.
[125] “The Arcadia,” written by Sir Philip Sidney.
On August 21, in a letter to Mrs. Donnellan at Spa, occurs the passage--
“Our friend Penny is under great anxiety for the change her sister
is going to make. I do not wonder at her fears; I believe both
experience, and observation, have taught her the state she is
going into is in the general, less happy than that she has left.
‘Pip’ has a good prospect, for they say the gentleman[126] has
good sense, good nature, and great sobriety; these are very good
things, and indeed what a stock of virtues and qualifications ought
to be laid in to last out the journey of life, where so much too
lies through the rugged ways of adversity, all will hardly serve to
lengthen love and patience to the end.”
[126] John D’Ewes, of Wellesbourne, Co. Warwick.
The lady to be married was Anne Granville, whose nickname was “Pip”;
she was about to be married to Mr. John D’Ewes. “Pen” was Mrs.
Pendarves’ nickname, afterwards Mrs. Delany, and those who have read
her memoirs will remember how unhappy was her _first_ experience of
married life. Much mention is made in this letter of an apron Elizabeth
is working for the duchess; she begs for patterns of flowers from her
father’s pencil, and Mr. Hateley, an artist friend. Embroidered aprons
were then the rage, but only for demi-toilette; the beautiful Duchess
of Queensberry,[127] going to Court in an apron about this time, was
forbidden to attend. The aprons were of all colours as well as white,
and the duchess, fearing a light ground would soon soil, bade Elizabeth
work hers on a black ground. Sarah Robinson at the same time was
working her sister one.
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