English Surnames: Their Sources and SignificationsBardsley, Charles Wareing Endell
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English Surnames: Their Sources and Significations
Bardsley, Charles Wareing Endell
Names, English; Names, Personal -- English
But it was then far different. The times, as
I have said, were rougher and coarser, and the delicacy of feeling which
would have shrunk from so addressing those with whom we had to deal, or
from making them the object of our banter, would have been perfectly
misunderstood. Apart from this, too, the bearer, after all, had little
to do with the question. He did not give himself the nickname he
received it; pleasant or unpleasant, as he had no voice in the
acquisition, so had he none in its retention. There was nothing for it
but good-tempered acquiescence. We know to this very day how difficult
was the task of getting rid of our school nicknames, how they clung to
us from the unhappy hour in which some sharp-witted, quick, discerning
youngster found out our weak part, and dubbed us by a sobriquet, which,
while it perhaps exaggerated the characteristic to which it had
reference, had the effect which a hundred admonitions from paternal or
magisterial head-quarters had not, to make us see our folly and mend our
ways. None the less, however, did the affix remain, and this was our
punishment. How often, when in after years we come accidentally across
some quondam schoolfellow, each staring strangely at the other’s grizzly
beard or beetled brow, the old sobriquet will crop up to the lips, and
in the very naturalness with which the expression is uttered all the
separation of years of thought and feeling is forgotten, and we are
instantly back to the old days and the old haunts, and pell-mell in the
thick of old boyish scrapes again. Yet perchance these names were
offensive. But they have wholly lost their force. We had ceased to feel
hurt by them long before we parted in early days. See how this, too, is
illustrated in the present day in the names of certain sects and
parties. We talk calmly of ‘Capuchins,’ ‘Quakers,’ ‘Ranters,’ ‘Whigs’
and ‘Tories,’ and yet some of these taken literally are offensive
enough, especially the political ones. But, as we know, all that
attached to them of odium has long ago become clouded, obscured, and
forgotten, and now they are the accepted, nay, proudly owned, titles of
the party they represent. Were it not for this we might be puzzled to
conceive why in these early times such a name as ‘le Bonde,’ significant
of nothing but personal servitude and galling oppression, was allowed to
remain. That ‘le Free’ and ‘le Freman’ and ‘le Franch-homme’ should
survive the ravages of time is natural enough. But with ‘Bond’ it is
different. It bespoke slavery. Yet it is one of our most familiar names
of to-day. How is this? The explanation is easy. The term was used to
denote personality, not position; the notion of condition was lost in
that of identity. It was just the same with sobriquets of a more
humorous and broad character, with nicknames in fact. The roughest
humour of those rough days is oftentimes found in these early records,
and the surnames which, putting complimentary and objectionable and
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