Of course, according to Erewhonian premises, it would serve people
right to be punished and scouted for moral and intellectual diseases as
much as for physical, and I cannot to this day understand why they
should have stopped short half way. Neither, again, can I understand
why their having done so should have been, as it certainly was, a
matter of so much concern to myself. What could it matter to me how
many absurdities the Erewhonians might adopt? Nevertheless I longed to
make them think as I did, for the wish to spread those opinions that we
hold conducive to our own welfare is so deeply rooted in the English
character that few of us can escape its influence. But let this pass.
In spite of not a few modifications in practice of a theory which is
itself revolting, the relations between children and parents in that
country are less happy than in Europe. It was rarely that I saw cases
of real hearty and intense affection between the old people and the
young ones. Here and there I did so, and was quite sure that the
children, even at the age of twenty, were fonder of their parents than
they were of any one else; and that of their own inclination, being
free to choose what company they would, they would often choose that of
their father and mother. The straightener’s carriage was rarely seen at
the door of those houses. I saw two or three such cases during the time
that I remained in the country, and cannot express the pleasure which I
derived from a sight suggestive of so much goodness and wisdom and
forbearance, so richly rewarded; yet I firmly believe that the same
thing would happen in nine families out of ten if the parents were
merely to remember how they felt when they were young, and actually to
behave towards their children as they would have had their own parents
behave towards themselves. But this, which would appear to be so simple
and obvious, seems also to be a thing which not one in a hundred
thousand is able to put in practice. It is only the very great and good
who have any living faith in the simplest axioms; and there are few who
are so holy as to feel that 19 and 13 make 32 as certainly as 2 and 2
make 4.
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