Let us buy our entrance to this guild by a long probation. Why should
we desecrate noble and beautiful souls by intruding on them? Why insist
on rash personal relations with your friend? Why go to his house, or
know his mother and brother and sisters? Why be visited by him at your
own? Are these things material to our covenant? Leave this touching and
clawing. Let him be to me a spirit. A message, a thought, a sincerity,
a glance from him, I want, but not news, nor pottage. I can get
politics and chat and neighborly conveniences from cheaper companions.
Should not the society of my friend be to me poetic, pure, universal
and great as nature itself? Ought I to feel that our tie is profane in
comparison with yonder bar of cloud that sleeps on the horizon, or that
clump of waving grass that divides the brook? Let us not vilify, but
raise it to that standard. That great defying eye, that scornful beauty
of his mien and action, do not pique yourself on reducing, but rather
fortify and enhance. Worship his superiorities; wish him not less by a
thought, but hoard and tell them all. Guard him as thy counterpart. Let
him be to thee for ever a sort of beautiful enemy, untamable, devoutly
revered, and not a trivial conveniency to be soon outgrown and cast
aside. The hues of the opal, the light of the diamond, are not to be
seen if the eye is too near. To my friend I write a letter and from him
I receive a letter. That seems to you a little. It suffices me. It is a
spiritual gift worthy of him to give and of me to receive. It profanes
nobody. In these warm lines the heart will trust itself, as it will not
to the tongue, and pour out the prophecy of a godlier existence than
all the annals of heroism have yet made good.
Respect so far the holy laws of this fellowship as not to prejudice its
perfect flower by your impatience for its opening. We must be our own
before we can be another’s. There is at least this satisfaction in
crime, according to the Latin proverb;—you can speak to your accomplice
on even terms. _Crimen quos inquinat, æquat_. To those whom we admire
and love, at first we cannot. Yet the least defect of self-possession
vitiates, in my judgment, the entire relation. There can never be deep
peace between two spirits, never mutual respect, until in their
dialogue each stands for the whole world.
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