Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)Blackwell, Elizabeth
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Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)
Blackwell, Elizabeth
Prostitution; Sexual ethics; Social medicine
It is impossible to overrate the wide importance of this law of
self-adjustment, under which human function is carried on. The abuses
of sex and the misunderstanding of actual facts, which have led to
widespread error on this subject, will be dwelt on later. Every parent,
however, who has been able to fulfil the true parental relationship to
the child will realize the beneficence of this law. The obligatory and
premature marriage of daughters, so largely the custom abroad, is one
result of error on this subject. A still more dangerous error is the
cruel advice sometimes given to a young man to degrade a woman, and
sin against his own higher nature by taking a mistress or resorting to
harlots.
I have often been consulted by anxious mothers who have observed
or been told by their boys of fourteen or fifteen that an unusual
discharge had taken place. It is of vital importance to the parent to
know that such action is as natural and healthy in the growing lad as
in the growing girl, but that in both it is a time requiring guidance,
both moral and physical. Respectful, earnest words of hygienic counsel,
including mind and body, are indispensable at this critical time of
youth. Parents, particularly mothers, live too often in fatal ignorance
of the conditions of sexual health and disease in their children. My
advice is constantly asked in such cases as the following: A careful
mother, who had brought up her son, a strong and healthy young man, to
the age of twenty, learned from him of this natural sign of vitality,
which both supposed to indicate disease! It was with pain and dismay
that she replied to his confidence, ‘Alas! then, my son, I fear you
must consult a doctor.’ The joyful light of gratitude and renewed hope
with which she learned the truth on this important subject--viz., that
the occasional spontaneous action of the organs (not voluntarily forced
by corrupt thought and action) is natural and beneficial--will not be
easily forgotten. It was like the gleam of transcendent joy which I
have seen illuminate the face of a young mother at the shrill cry of
her first-born infant.
The measureless evil caused, not only by their ignorance, but by the
false information given to mothers, is illustrated by the inquiry made
of a friend of mine, a clergyman, by an intelligent French mother about
to move to Paris with her son. This lady, sensible and even pious,
wrote to the clergyman to inquire ‘if providing a mistress for her son
would be very costly in Paris.’ She had accepted as a fact what she had
been taught, viz., that no young man who could not marry early could
remain healthy without resorting to vice.
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