Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)Blackwell, Elizabeth
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Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)
Blackwell, Elizabeth
Prostitution; Sexual ethics; Social medicine
that material advantages are secondary to this unspeakable blessing;
that thrift, knowledge of household economy, power of creating an
attractive home, are essential to the attainment of this great good,
then her instincts, by an inevitable law of nature, will tend to the
acquirement of these qualifications. If, on the contrary, she feels,
through the influence of society (still unexpressed), that physical
effects are the things chiefly sought for, that physical charm or
the power exercised by corporeal sex is the chief or only possession
that draws attention to her, then, by the same inevitable law, she
will strive to exercise this physical power, and the means of doing
so will become the all-absorbing occupation of an ever-increasing
number of young women. As already stated, the direct result of the
mastery of young men by irresistible physical instinct will be to
create a necessity in young women for dress which will bring physical
attractions into prominence or supply their deficiency. The craving
for riches and luxury, the ignorance of economy, so often urged as an
obstacle to marriage, are the inevitable results of licentiousness,
which strengthens and cultivates exclusively material desires and
necessities. Children should look forward to beginning life as simply
as their parents began it, but with the added advantages of education.
It is a totally false principle that they should expect to begin where
their parents left off. Filial honour for their parents’ lives and
inherited vigour would alike lead them to commence life with extreme
simplicity. The power of rendering such simplicity attractive would
prove that they had acquired the refinement and breadth of view which
is the result of true culture instead of being enervated by luxury.
They would thus, whilst beginning life as did their parents, begin
it, nevertheless, from a vantage-ground, the result of their parents’
labours. Each generation would thus make a solid gain in life instead
of encountering the destructive results which always attend the strife
for material luxury.
There are many important points bearing on this vital question of early
marriage--such as the exercise of self-control in married life and the
teaching of sound physiology, which is needed to reconcile marriage
with foresight--whose discussion would be out of place in the present
essay. But that the topic must be thoroughly and wisely considered by
parents resolved to aid one another in securing this inevitable reform,
is certain. The increasing tendency to delay marriage is so serious
an evil, that methods for checking this tendency must be found if our
worth as a nation is to continue. The early and solemn betrothal of
young people is an old custom now fallen into disuse. The possibility
of its readoption as a beneficial social practice, with its duration,
duties, and privileges, is worthy of serious consideration.
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