Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)Blackwell, Elizabeth
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Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)
Blackwell, Elizabeth
Prostitution; Sexual ethics; Social medicine
We have seen that the careful guidance of youth in relation to the
faculty of sex, an improvement in the tone of society, and provision
for early marriage, are fundamental points which should engage the
earnest thought of every mother. It would be, however, a most serious
mistake to suppose that the methods of carrying out these principles
devolve upon the mother only. It is too frequently the case that the
father, absorbed in outdoor pursuits, regards the indoor life as
exclusively the business of his wife, and takes little or no part in
the education of his children; but no true home can ever be formed
without the mutual aid of father and mother. The division of labour
may be different, but the joint influence should ever be felt in
this closest of partnerships. As the wise wife is the most trusty
confidant of the general business life of the husband, so he is the
natural counsellor and support in all that concerns the occupations,
amusements, society, and influence of his home. No home can be a happy
one, if the father’s keenest interest and enjoyment do not centre in
his family life. There are, however, special duties to the family
required from the father, owing to his position as a citizen, and
these hold an intimate relation to the future of his children. A large
view of home duty must necessarily lead to a fulfilment of citizen
duty. There are few men who, in their special business or occupation,
do not possess large opportunities for encouraging a nobler idea
respecting the relations of men and women than now prevails; few
who cannot show their respect for virtue and in some way discourage
vice. Men, not only as fathers, but as educators of youth--clergymen,
physicians, employers of labour--hold an immense power in their hands
for raising the tone of a community into which their sons and daughters
must soon enter, and through the ceaseless temptations of which the
effects of the most careful family education may be destroyed. No
occupation can stand isolated from the rest of life; the interlinkings
are innumerable. The man who throws a temptation in the way of a weaker
neighbour, or ignores the struggles of his dependents, or fails to
speak the encouraging word to those whom he influences, may be placing
a pitfall in the way of his own son and daughter.
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