Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)Blackwell, Elizabeth
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Essays in medical sociology, Volume 1 (of 2)
Blackwell, Elizabeth
Prostitution; Sexual ethics; Social medicine
The different form which physical sensation necessarily takes in the
two sexes, and its intimate connection with and development through the
mind (love) in women’s nature, serve often to blind even thoughtful
and painstaking persons as to the immense power of sexual attraction
felt by women. Such one-sided views show a misconception of the meaning
of human sex in its entirety.
The affectionate husbands of refined women often remark that their
wives do not regard the distinctively sexual act with the same
intoxicating physical enjoyment that they themselves feel, and they
draw the conclusion that the wife possesses no sexual passion. A
delicate wife will often confide to her medical adviser (who may be
treating her for some special suffering) that at the very time when
marriage love seems to unite them most closely, when her husband’s
welcome kisses and caresses seem to bring them into profound union,
comes an act which mentally separates them, and which may be either
indifferent or repugnant to her. But it must be understood that it is
not the special act necessary for parentage which is the measure of the
compound moral and physical power of sexual passion; it is the profound
attraction of one nature to the other which marks passion, and delight
in kiss and caress--the love-touch--is physical sexual expression as
much as the special act of the male.
It is well known that terror or pain in either sex will temporarily
destroy all physical pleasure. In married life, injury from childbirth,
or brutal or awkward conjugal approaches, may cause unavoidable
shrinking from sexual congress, often wrongly attributed to absence of
sexual passion. But the severe and compound suffering experienced by
many widows who were strongly attached to their lost partners is also
well known to the physician, and this is not simply a mental loss that
they feel, but an immense physical deprivation. It is a loss which all
the senses suffer by the physical as well as moral void which death has
created.
Although physical sexual pleasure is not attached exclusively, or in
woman chiefly, to the act of coition, it is also a well-established
fact that in healthy, loving women, uninjured by the too frequent
lesions which result from childbirth, increasing physical satisfaction
attaches to the ultimate physical expression of love. A repose and
general well-being results from this natural occasional intercourse,
whilst the total deprivation of it produces irritability.
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