Etiquette for Little FolksMackarness, Henry S., Mrs.
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Etiquette for Little Folks
Mackarness, Henry S., Mrs.
Etiquette for children and teenagers -- Juvenile literature
MORAL CHARACTER.
There is nothing so delicate as your moral character, and nothing
that it is your interest so much to preserve pure. Should you be
suspected of injustice, malignity, perfidy, lying, &c., all the parts
and knowledge in the world will never procure you esteem, friendship,
or respect. A strange concurrence of circumstances has sometimes
raised very bad men to high stations; but they have been raised, like
criminals to a pillory, where their persons and their crimes, by
being more conspicuous, are only the more known, the more pelted and
insulted. If in any case whatsoever, dissimulation were pardonable, it
would be in the case of morality; though, even then, a Pharasaical
pomp of virtue would not be advisable. But I will recommend to you a
most scrupulous tenderness for your moral character, and the utmost
care not to do or say anything that may ever so slightly taint it. Show
yourself, upon all occasions, the advocate, the friend, but not the
bully, of virtue.
GOOD BREEDING.
Observe the best and most well-bred of the French people; how agreeably
they insinuate little civilities in their conversation. They think it
so essential that they call an honest and a civil man by the same name,
of “honnete homme;” and the Romans called civility, “humanitas,” as
thinking it inseparable from humanity: and depend upon it, that your
reputation and success will, in a great measure, depend upon the degree
of good breeding of which you are master.
From what has been said, I conclude with the observation, that
gentleness of manners, with firmness of mind, is a short but full
description of human perfection, on this side of religious and moral
duties.
Transcriber’s Notes
A few minor errors in punctuation and spelling were corrected.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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