Famous Affinities of History: The Romance of Devotion. Volume 4Orr, Lyndon
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Famous Affinities of History: The Romance of Devotion. Volume 4
Orr, Lyndon
Biography; Love; Women -- Biography
To most persons, Tennyson was a remote and romantic figure. His homes
in the Isle of Wight and at Aldworth had a dignified seclusion about
them which was very appropriate to so great a poet, and invested him
with a certain awe through which the multitude rarely penetrated. As a
matter of fact, however, he was an excellent companion, a ready talker,
and gifted with so much wit that it is a pity that more of his sayings
have not been preserved to us.
One of the best known is that which was drawn from him after he and a
number of friends had been spending an hour in company with Mr. and
Mrs. Carlyle. The two Carlyles were unfortunately at their worst, and
gave a superb specimen of domestic "nagging." Each caught up whatever
the other said, and either turned it into ridicule, or tried to make
the author of it an object of contempt.
This was, of course, exceedingly uncomfortable for such strangers as
were present, and it certainly gave no pleasure to their friends. On
leaving the house, some one said to Tennyson:
"Isn't it a pity that such a couple ever married?"
"No, no," said Tennyson, with a sort of smile under his rough beard.
"It's much better that two people should be made unhappy than four."
The world has pretty nearly come around to the verdict of the poet
laureate. It is not probable that Thomas Carlyle would have made any
woman happy as his wife, or that Jane Baillie Welsh would have made any
man happy as her husband.
This sort of speculation would never have occurred had not Mr. Froude,
in the early eighties, given his story about the Carlyles to the world.
Carlyle went to his grave, an old man, highly honored, and with no
trail of gossip behind him. His wife had died some sixteen years
before, leaving a brilliant memory. The books of Mr. Froude seemed for
a moment to have desecrated the grave, and to have shed a sudden and
sinister light upon those who could not make the least defense for
themselves.
For a moment, Carlyle seemed to have been a monster of harshness,
cruelty, and almost brutish feeling. On the other side, his wife took
on the color of an evil-speaking, evil-thinking shrew, who tormented
the life of her husband, and allowed herself to be possessed by some
demon of unrest and discontent, such as few women of her station are
ever known to suffer from.
Nor was it merely that the two were apparently ill-mated and unhappy
with each other. There were hints and innuendos which looked toward
some hidden cause for this unhappiness, and which aroused the curiosity
of every one. That they might be clearer, Froude afterward wrote a
book, bringing out more plainly--indeed, too plainly--his explanation
of the Carlyle family skeleton. A multitude of documents then came from
every quarter, and from almost every one who had known either of the
Carlyles. Perhaps the result to-day has been more injurious to Froude
than to the two Carlyles.
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