Famous Affinities of History: The Romance of Devotion. Volume 4Orr, Lyndon
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Famous Affinities of History: The Romance of Devotion. Volume 4
Orr, Lyndon
Biography; Love; Women -- Biography
First, there was set forth the almost continual unhappiness of the
pair. In the second place, by hint, by innuendo, and sometimes by
explicit statement, there were given reasons to show why Carlyle made
his wife unhappy. Of course, his gnawing dyspepsia, which she strove
with all her might to drive away, was one of the first and greatest
causes. But again another cause of discontent was stated in the
implication that Carlyle, in his bursts of temper, actually abused his
wife. In one passage there is a hint that certain blue marks upon her
arm were bruises, the result of blows.
Most remarkable of all these accusations is that which has to do with
the relations of Carlyle and Lady Ashburton. There is no doubt that
Jane Carlyle disliked this brilliant woman, and came to have dark
suspicions concerning her. At first, it was only a sort of social
jealousy. Lady Ashburton was quite as clever a talker as Mrs. Carlyle,
and she had a prestige which brought her more admiration.
Then, by degrees, as Jane Carlyle's mind began to wane, she transferred
her jealousy to her husband himself. She hated to be out-shone, and
now, in some misguided fashion, it came into her head that Carlyle had
surrendered to Lady Ashburton his own attention to his wife, and had
fallen in love with her brilliant rival.
On one occasion, she declared that Lady Ashburton had thrown herself at
Carlyle's feet, but that Carlyle had acted like a man of honor, while
Lord Ashburton, knowing all the facts, had passed them over, and had
retained his friendship with Carlyle.
Now, when Froude came to write My Relations with Carlyle, there were
those who were very eager to furnish him with every sort of gossip. The
greatest source of scandal upon which he drew was a woman named
Geraldine Jewsbury, a curious neurotic creature, who had seen much of
the late Mrs. Carlyle, but who had an almost morbid love of offensive
tattle. Froude describes himself as a witness for six years, at Cheyne
Row, "of the enactment of a tragedy as stern and real as the story of
Oedipus." According to his own account:
I stood by, consenting to the slow martyrdom of a woman whom I have
described as bright and sparkling and tender, and I uttered no word of
remonstrance. I saw her involved in a perpetual blizzard, and did
nothing to shelter her.
But it is not upon his own observations that Froude relies for his most
sinister evidence against his friend. To him comes Miss Jewsbury with a
lengthy tale to tell. It is well to know what Mrs. Carlyle thought of
this lady. She wrote:
It is her besetting sin, and her trade of novelist has aggravated
it--the desire of feeling and producing violent emotions. ... Geraldine
has one besetting weakness; she is never happy unless she has a grande
passion on hand.
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