Five Minute Sermons, Volume I.: For Low Masses on All Sundays of the Year by Priests of the Congregation of St. PaulPaulist Fathers
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Five Minute Sermons, Volume I.: For Low Masses on All Sundays of the Year by Priests of the Congregation of St. Paul
Paulist Fathers
Catholic Church -- Sermons; Sermons, American -- 19th century
These words, my dear brethren, are taken from the Epistle of
to-day. They certainly contain a most important lesson for us,
and one which we are too apt never even to begin to learn. You
will find plenty of people who are near the end of a long
life--who have, as the saying is, one foot in the grave--who do
not seem to know how to overlook and to pardon injuries any
better than when they first began to be exposed to them.
There are two very good reasons, my brethren, why you should
learn this lesson. The first is that, unless you do, you can
never be happy in this life; the second, that, unless you have
learned it, there is great reason to fear for your happiness in
the life which is to come.
You can never be happy, I say, in this life, unless you know how
to pardon and overlook the injuries you receive from others. And
the reason of this is very plain. It is, in the first place,
because it is very uncomfortable to be brooding over injuries
received--that is plain enough; and, in the second place, you
will always be exposed to them. There is a way to avoid them, it
is true: it is to go out into the desert and live there in some
cave or hut all alone. But I think there are very few nowadays
who have any vocation to that; and if you should undertake to
live the life of a hermit without any vocation for it, the
chances are that you would be ten times as miserable as you would
be with the very worst neighbors in the world.
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This is the only way to avoid them; for, however good the people
are among whom you live, they will always be somewhat selfish;
they will want to have their own way sometimes, at least, and it
will often happen that they cannot have their way and at the same
time let you have yours. And they will always be somewhat
thoughtless. They will not be so very careful not to offend you;
and you cannot expect it of them, for you are not so careful
yourself. You would be surprised if you should know how often you
have given offence to others.
The fact is, there is not room enough in this world for us all to
get along without sometimes treading on each other's toes. There
are a great many of us sailing together down the stream of life,
and it will take the most careful steering to prevent our now and
then running foul of each other. And such careful steering cannot
be expected of every one, or of any except one or two here and
there. If you really should try it yourselves you would find how
difficult it is. The saints do try it, and that is one reason why
it is a work of sanctity to be indulgent to the faults of others.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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