Fletcher himself had greatly changed his opinion since the indictment of his "Reasons for and against Matrimony." To a friend he wrote his new sentiments thus:-- "God declared it was not good that man, a social being, should live alone, and therefore He gave him a helpmeet for him. For the same reason our Lord sent forth His disciples, two and two. Had I searched the three kingdoms I could not have found one brother willing to share gratis my weal, woe, and labours, and complaisant enough to unite his fortunes to mine; but God has found me a partner, _a sister_, _a wife_, to use St. Paul's language, who is not afraid to face with me the colliers and bargemen of my parish, until death part us. "Buried together in our country village, we shall help one another to trim our lamps, and wait for the coming of the Heavenly Bridegroom." Mrs. Fletcher's introduction to her husband's parishioners was sufficiently homely and simple. The Madeley kitchen was full of those who had come from a distance, and who were accustomed to take refreshments there between the two services. He led her forward into their midst, adding to his introduction the words, "I have not married this wife for myself only, but for your sakes also." Only a few weeks later they were honoured by a visit from John Wesley himself, who, friend of method as he was, felt anxious that they should lay down an exactly regular way of ordering their time, even as Mary Bosanquet had done for her larger household in the past. Whether they complied with the suggestion or not is unrecorded, but Mrs. Fletcher makes beautiful mention of interruptions to her ordinary routine, caused by unexpected visitors:-- "I have this day been engaged in company, and sweetly met the order of God therein." Blessed secret of peace! God had so united this saintly man and woman in love and grace that they had abundant cause to write of each other as we find them doing. Once more to the diary:-- "May 30th, 1782.... I have the kindest and tenderest of husbands; of so spiritual a man, and so spiritual a union, I had no adequate conception." To Charles Wesley Fletcher writes in his turn :- "I thank you for your hint about exemplifying the love of Christ and His Church. I hope we do.... My wife is far better to me than the Church to Christ, so that if the parallel fails, it will be on my side." Between November, 1782, and January, 1783, peace was made by Great Britain with America, France, and Spain. Fletcher made this the occasion of another poem, written in French, entitled, "An Essay upon the Peace of 1783. Dedicated to the Archbishop of Paris." Five months after their marriage Mr. and Mrs. Fletcher were invited to visit the Methodists of Dublin. The Vicar had been absent so long from his people that he found further absence just then impossible. Sixteen months later, however, Dr. Coke came from Dublin and renewed the invitation, which they accepted.