I recollect seeing in some author a description of a true gentleman, in which, among other things, he was characterized as the man that asks the fewest questions. This trait of refined society might be adopted into home-life in a far greater degree than it is, and make it far more agreeable. If there is perfect unreserve and mutual confidence, let it show itself in free communications coming unsolicited. It may fairly be presumed that, if there is anything our intimate friends wish us to know, they will tell us of it, and that when we are in close and confidential terms with persons, and there are topics on which they do not speak to us, it is because for some reason they prefer to keep silence concerning them; and the delicacy that respects a friend’s silence is one of the charms of life. * * * * * [Sidenote: Shyness of love.] It comes far easier to scold our friend in an angry moment than to say how much we love, honor, and esteem him in a kindly mood. Wrath and bitterness speak themselves and go with their own force; love is shame-faced, looks shyly out of the window, lingers long at the door-latch. * * * * * [Sidenote: Throwing away happiness.] For the contentions that loosen the very foundations of love, that crumble away all its fine traceries and carved work, about what miserable, worthless things do they commonly begin! A dinner underdone, too much oil consumed, a newspaper torn, a waste of coal or soap, a dish broken!—and for this miserable sort of trash, very good, very generous, very religious people will sometimes waste and throw away by double-handfuls the very thing for which houses are built and all the paraphernalia of a home established,—_their happiness_. Better cold coffee, smoky tea, burnt meat, better any inconvenience, any loss, than a loss of _love_; and nothing so surely turns away love as constant fault-finding. * * * * * [Sidenote: Morbid feelings.] There is _fretfulness_, a mizzling, drizzling rain of discomforting remark; there is _grumbling_, a northeast snowstorm that never clears; there is _scolding_, the thunder-storm with lightning and hail. All these are worse than useless; they are positive _sins_, by whomsoever indulged,—sins as great and real as many that are shuddered at in polite society. All these are for the most part but the venting on our fellow-beings of morbid feelings resulting from dyspepsia, over-taxed nerves, or general ill-health. HOUSE AND HOME PAPERS. [Sidenote: Love of a bargain.]