Folk-Lore of West and Mid-WalesDavies, Jonathan Ceredig
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Folk-Lore of West and Mid-Wales
Davies, Jonathan Ceredig
Folklore -- Wales; Wales -- Social life and customs
to add a sprig of hazel. These pledges were handed to the respective
lasses by the different "Caisars," or Merry Andrews,--persons dressed
in disguise for the occasion, who, in their turn, used to take each
his young woman by the hand to an adjoining room where they would
deliver the "pwysi," or nose-gay, as it was called, and afterwards
immediately retire upon having mentioned the giver's name.
When a young woman also had made up her mind to have nothing further to
do with a young man who had been her lover, or proposed to become one,
she used to give him a "ffon wen," (white wand) from an hazel tree,
decorated with white ribbons. This was a sign to the young man that
she did not love him.
The Welsh name for hazel-tree is "collen." Now the word "coll" has a
double meaning; it means to lose anything, as well as a name for the
hazel, and it is the opinion of some that this double meaning of the
word gave the origin to the custom of making use of the hazel-tree
as a sign of the loss of a lover.
It is also worthy of notice, that, whilst the hazel indicated the
rejection of a lover, the birch tree, on the other hand, was used as an
emblem of love, or in other words that a lover was accepted. Among the
Welsh young persons of both sexes were able to make known their love to
one another without speaking, only by presenting a Birchen-Wreath. This
curious old custom of presenting a rejected lover with a white wand
was known at Pontrhydfendigaid, in Cardiganshire until only a few
years ago. My informant was Dr. Morgan, Pontrhydygroes. Mrs. Hughes,
Cwrtycadno, Llanilar, also informed me that she had heard something
about such custom at Tregaron, when she was young.
It was also the custom to adorn a mixture of birch and quicken-tree
with flowers and a ribbon, and leave it where it was most likely to
be found by the person intended on May-morning. Dafydd ap Gwilym, the
poet, I have just referred to, mentions of this in singing to Morfudd.
Young people of both sexes, are very anxious to know whether they
are to marry the lady or the gentleman they now love, or who is to
be their future partner in life, or are they to die single. Young
people have good many most curious and different ways to decide all
such interesting and important questions, by resorting to uncanny
and romantic charms and incantations. To seek hidden information by
incantation was very often resorted to in times past, especially about
a hundred years ago, and even at the present day, but not as much
as in former times. It was believed, and is perhaps, still believed
by some, that the spirit of a person could be invoked, and that it
would appear, and that young women by performing certain ceremonies
could obtain a sight of the young men they were to marry.
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