Fragments of voyages and travels, including anecdotes of a naval life : $b Chiefly for the use of young persons. Vol. 1 (of 3)Hall, Basil
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Fragments of voyages and travels, including anecdotes of a naval life : $b Chiefly for the use of young persons. Vol. 1 (of 3)
Hall, Basil
Voyages and travels -- Juvenile literature
There is a vehement delight, no doubt, in novelty—but we may have
too much of it at once; and certainly, if my advice were asked as to
this point, in the case of another, I should recommend that a boy be
gradually introduced to his future home; and, if possible, placed
under the auspices of some one older than himself, and who, from
having a real interest in him, might soften the needless rigours of
this formidable change. I had no such preparation; and was without
one friend or even acquaintance on board, who cared a straw for me. I
was also very little for my age, spoke broad Scotch, and was, withal,
rather testy in my disposition. The cock-pit, it is true, is a pretty
good place to work the bad humours out of a crotchety young fellow,
and to bring him to his due bearings; but I think I have seen a good
many tenderer plants than I was, crushed down under the severity of
this merciless discipline. Perhaps it is all for the best; because
youngsters who cannot, or will not stand this rough rubbing, are just
as well out of the way, both for themselves and the public.
There is one practice, however, which, as I invariably followed it
myself, I know to be in every boy’s power, and I venture strongly to
recommend it to others in the same situation; nor is it very likely
that many will be exposed to greater trials, in a small way, than I
was at first. The maxim is, always, in writing home, to put the best
face upon matters, and never, if possible, to betray any inevitable
unhappiness. Such a practice is doubly useful—for it contributes
essentially to produce that character of cheerfulness in reality,
which is partly assumed at the moment of writing, in order to save
our friends from distress on our account. It would be wrong, indeed,
to say, in writing home, that we are very happy, when in truth we are
very much the reverse; but, without stating any falsehood, or giving
into any subterfuge—which is still worse—those particular things may
very fairly be dwelt upon which are agreeable, almost to the exclusion
of those which are otherwise. We should learn, in short, to see and
to describe the cheerful things; and, both in our practice and in
description, leave the unpleasant ones to take care of themselves.
For example, I remember, as well as if the incidents had occurred
yesterday, most of the details which are stated in the following
letter, written only the day after I was left to my fate—amongst
strangers—in the unknown world of a man-of-war. I certainly was far
from happy, and might easily have made my friends wretched by selecting
chiefly what was disagreeable. I took a different course.
“_H. M. Ship Leander, June 12, 1802,
Cock Pit._
“DEAR FATHER,
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