Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
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Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
“I can remember, quite early in my school-life, the cutting
satire with which Miss Buss would criticize some of the modern
trash in the shape of literature, so that one felt (and that
feeling I have never lost) one simply could not read such books.
On the other hand, she always recommended plenty of good
wholesome books to help us in the choice of our reading; while,
in pointing out passages, or in explaining allusions, she roused
interest, and cultivated the taste for all that is good and pure
in literature.
“She applied to books, as to other things, her favourite motto:
‘Aim high, and you will strike high!’
“She seemed, in all her teaching, to agree with the poet Lowell,
that ‘not failure, but low aim, is crime!’
“A favourite subject for debate was the _Ethics of Waste_,
showing that everything wantonly destroyed is a loss to the
community. The wickedness of waste of food seems to have excited
much attention, and set the girls, among themselves, to discuss
and make calculations concerning it which served—as they were
meant to do—to give safe and harmless topics for talk.
“Akin to this was the effort to make girls look into the future,
and not to trust to what might happen, but to prepare by present
action in acquiring habits of decision and industry. She thought
that every woman should be independent, and deprecated
dependence on brothers or other friends, so long as effort was
possible on their own part.”
Another “Myra girl” seizes on a point very characteristic, when she
says—
“To schoolgirl and friend alike, Miss Buss was entirely natural.
She was too great to think of, or to need, exterior aids to
respect. Forgetful of herself, she was ever ready to share her
thoughts or memories with all who could be interested or helped
by them.
“In her conversation she avoided all personal gossip. Never did
an unkind or hasty word about a fellow-being cross her lips, and
often in the school addresses, she told us that by chatter the
ninth commandment was easily broken, and that topics about
acquaintances begun in innocence, ended only in harm and hurt to
others.”
There is a story of her that, one day, after a visitor had gone, Miss
Buss seemed very uncomfortable, and finally said, “I feel as if I had
been stung all over; that talk has left so many stings behind it!” It
was her rule, carefully kept, never to repeat unpleasant things; but she
never forgot to mention any kind word said about others.
Miss Fawcett speaks of Miss Buss’ sympathy with young life and its
needs, and she adds—
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