Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
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Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
“The girls were a great happiness to Miss Buss. If one or other
did give trouble through temper—and this did worry her—we would
sometimes comfort each other by reflecting how many of them did
nothing of the kind, but went on tranquilly and happily. ‘Yes,’
she would say, ‘it is the old story; the ninety and nine are apt
to be forgotten in the struggle with the one!’ And she would
cheer up.”
She was very indulgent to her girls at the half-term holidays. Besides
sending them for pleasant excursions, she liked them to be able to go
into the kitchen to make toffee, and to cook some little dainty
(Northcountry cakes or specialities), or anything else they might like.
The girls’ birthdays were always marked by some special treat. On one
occasion we hear that the younger children were, for once, to be allowed
to make “just as much noise as they liked.” The results were so
“tremendous” that a friendly policeman looked in to see if his services
were required, greatly relieved to find that the shrieks which had
attracted him were only shrieks of laughter.
But, whilst delighting in real fun, the line was drawn, hard and fast,
at slang, roughness, and, above all, at practical jokes. No girl who had
once had a talk with her on this last topic was likely to make a second
attempt within reach of Miss Buss. The doings of certain “smart” sets
found small tolerance in her eyes. Nor did the “Dodo” and “Yellow Aster”
literature fare better, though for most of it she would have probably
given the prescription that worked so well in one particular case of
morbid excitement—“closed doors and open windows,” or silence and fresh
air.
Miss Buss had remarked, as a fact of her experience, that if girls of
great natural vanity could not take the lead in any other way, they
developed something sensational in health. Hearing of a case of this
sort in one of the boarding-houses, she requested to be sent for if
another fainting fit should come on. This was done. On arriving, she
found the girls’ room full of anxious bystanders, who were at once
dismissed, only excepting the head of the house, who was asked to close
the door and open all the windows.
Miss Buss then demanded a large jug of “the very coldest water that
could be procured,” adding, in distinct tones, “There is no sort of
danger in this kind of attack, and the most certain cure is a sudden
dash of very cold water in the face.”
In telling me this story, she added, with one of her most genial smiles—
“I saw that the child had her best frock on, and I wanted to give her
time.”
Before the water came, the patient was able to gasp out, “Ah, I feel
better now, thank you!”
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