Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
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Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
In November, Mrs. Grey writes again—
“Your letter made us very sad. The loss of two such friends as
Dr. Hodgson and Miss Chessar coming upon you under such
circumstances, and so close together, was enough to break you
down utterly, but, as you do not mention your health, we trust
it did not suffer. We cannot help hoping that the distressing
effect will have worn away enough to let your old elasticity of
spirits and love of Rome restore you, and that we may yet have
the pleasure of welcoming you here at Christmas.”
Miss Buss had written to say that Rome was not possible for this year,
and in response Miss Shirreff speaks of one part of her letter—
“How true is what you say of the terrible void in one’s life
from the loss of early friends, but, believe me, dear Miss Buss,
later friendships may become very close and dear, and you are
far indeed from having overpast the age for making them. Those
to whom mental sympathy has always been the strong, if not the
strongest, link in friendship, have in this case a great
advantage over others, because, while we outlive other and
lighter needs of our nature, the need for mental companionship
never is lost, and this enjoyment can never cease to give, after
close affection, the truest zest to life. It is therefore never
too late to meet with it, though we become slower in discerning
it when it exists. But you have not reached that point, and with
the full vigour of mental faculty you are ready to seize the
full enjoyment of what responds to your own nature. In hours of
sorrow we are so apt to feel the burden of years that we
acquiesce too readily in the privations they seem to bring.
“I hope your quiet holiday-time spent with your old friend will
send you back strengthened and hopeful to your work. I cannot
express how much we feel your goodness in having added to it the
guidance of this new school (the Maria Grey Training School)
through its difficult early years. Mrs. Grey joins in love, and
says she will write another day.
“Ever affectionately yours,
“EMILY A. SHIRREFF.”
The visit to Mrs. Hodgson during the holidays did much to comfort them
both, and to strengthen the bond that never relaxed to the end. The very
latest pleasure of Miss Buss’ life, in the bright interval that preceded
the fatal illness, was a visit at Myra from this loved and loving
friend.
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CHAPTER V.
REST.
“One who never turned his back, but marched straightforward;
Never doubted clouds would break; Never deemed, though right
were worsted, wrong would triumph; Held we fall to rise, are
baffled to fight better, Sleep to wake!”
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