Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
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Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
How she could keep to her old friends, when the pupil grew up to closer
intimacy, is shown in one of the letters written to me while she was
still amongst us. It is also touching in the light it throws on her
relation to the sanctities and sorrows of quiet home-life, and what she
could be to those who needed her. It is happy to remember that in the
lovely home of this dear pupil-friend the beloved teacher found rest and
refreshment in many a weary time; and we may thank Mrs. Pierson for this
glimpse into that deeper life, of which she writes from a full heart—
“It is not often that ladies contend for the honour of age, but
Miss Begbie and I have had one or two friendly squabbles as to
which of us is the elder ‘old pupil.’ _I think_ it was the
second term of the opening of dear Miss Buss’ school, in 1850,
that I became one of her happy pupils, and from that day to this
she has been my loving guide and friend, sharing many deep
sorrows and deeper joys. She has been so great an influence in
my life that I have always felt I could realize the verse, ‘For
a good man some would even dare to die.’
“In those early days we were a comparative handful of girls, and
had the benefit of Miss Buss’ society nearly all to ourselves,
enjoying the very cream of her young life, intellect, and
enthusiasm.
“It was all like fairyland teaching to me, and in the exuberance
of my enjoyment, I am obliged to confess that I was a little
troublesome, and often managed to upset the equilibrium of the
class, bringing upon myself the ordeal of a lecture in Miss
Buss’ private room after school. I always went into that room
raging like a young lioness, but invariably came out a plaintive
lamb, vowing never to offend again. In order to comfort and
soothe my passionate grief, dear Miss Buss often kept me to tea
with her and her pleasant family party, and I fear that that
enjoyment had a demoralizing effect upon my good resolutions.
“I was motherless when I first knew Miss Buss, and had been
utterly spoilt by an over-indulgent father until he married
again a lady quite out of sympathy with a girl of fourteen. I
should have turned into a veritable fury, and ended in
perdition, if I had not come across the spiritual influence of
dear Miss Buss. She supplied every want in my soul, and I gladly
gave myself to her loving guidance, often falling, but always
encouraged, until in after years I was strong enough to be able
to part with life’s best treasures one by one, and to say—
“‘It is well with my husband,
It is well with my child.’
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