It is for all these reasons, and thousands more that creep into the
blood and the brain beyond the range of analysis, that Paris takes such
a grip of the foreigner, and becomes the birth-town of his maturity. In
other towns you sojourn as a stranger or a contemplator. You live apart,
either in your own world of dreams, among old stones, ruins, and faded
pictures, amid the dim aisles of Gothic poems, or else you form part of a
foreign coterie, and give and go to afternoon teas, living like invaders,
in insolent indifference to the natives around you, except in your
appreciation of them should they be courteous enough to lend themselves
to your notion of the picturesque, or treat you with the consideration
and kindness you naturally deem yourself entitled to expect along the
highways of Europe. But Paris will have none of this patronage. If you
settle there it is inevitable that you will become Parisianised. I do not
say anything so flattering as that your taste in dress, if you happen
to be a woman, will, of necessity, become that of your adopted sister,
but there will be a chance that her eye for colour will modify your
barbaric indifference to it, and the cut of her gown and shape of her
hat will insensibly beguile you into altering yours. Nor, in the case of
the young gentlemen of Great Britain, would I imply that long residence
in Paris will affect their excellent tailoring, or turn them into the
overdressed popinjays of the boulevards. The Englishman and the Parisian
woman will always remain the best-dressed of their kind wherever they
may live; and, while the Frenchman, in morals and manners, can descend
to odious depths unsuspected by the blunt and open-minded Saxon, he can
also, when the race shows him at his best, reveal virtues of subtler
and more captivating quality. I know no form of young man more charming
than a good young Frenchman, and can never understand why he figures so
little in French fiction. There is nothing of the prig about him. He does
not spend his days in being shocked at his neighbour; he is under no
compulsion to be narrow and dull; he does not quote the Bible, nor does
he desire, like the British virtuous youth, to mould all humanity upon
his own stiff and starched effigy. His wisdom is woven with a great deal
of gaiety; and when he happens to be dull, he carries off his dulness
with an imperturbable amiability. This type of Frenchman a woman will
never find offensive. He can oblige her with simplicity, and courtesy and
gentleness are the most distinctive features of his character.
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