Frenchwomen are not perfect, we know, since they are human. They have
their meannesses, their spites, their pettinesses, and jealousies,
like others; they are largely tainted with the vice of avarice, and
it cannot be said that they are, in general, capable of climbing the
heights of disinterestedness. They love money, and they save it. But,
whatever their faults, I dare to say that no race of women can show
a smaller percentage of shrews and reckless mischief-makers. Their
discretion is extraordinary, and no less extraordinary is the equable,
dignified nature of their domestic rule. They have their tantrums like
other women, but they are surprisingly free from the vice of scolding.
The word “termagant” was never invented for the pleasing and tactful
Frenchwoman. She will blight your life by other means should she have
that fancy. Economy is her great and unlovable virtue. If she clips the
wings of romance so ruthlessly, it is always in the interests of economy.
I do not give her ideal as the highest or the noblest; it is even
lower, perhaps, than that of many other classes of women, since it is
exclusively occupied with the state of her own and her progeny’s purse.
But the process by which she attains this ideal is charming in itself.
She cheerfully makes every personal sacrifice needful, and counts herself
blest when she places the hand of a son or daughter in that of a suitable
match, with fortune proportionate and prospects of equal promise. She
lives for her husband and children; and if, as the fashionable novelists
assure us, she often deviates from the path of virtue,—makes, as the
boulevardiers say, a rent in the marriage contract,—not even those
romancers dare affirm that she neglects, for such caprices, the interests
of either.
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