Friendly Visiting among the Poor: A Handbook for Charity WorkersRichmond, Mary Ellen
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Friendly Visiting among the Poor: A Handbook for Charity Workers
Richmond, Mary Ellen
Friendly visiting
that her husband never shared the food. He was away from home most of
the time. Sometimes he would come home Saturday night and bring some
money, and then he would take his meals at home; but, when the money was
gone, he would go out for his meals, never asking how his wife and
children fared in his absence. It did not appear that his disregard was
due to his thinking that others would care for the family. The wife
insisted that he did not think or care how they fared. He had sometimes
left her for weeks, when {210} she was ill in bed, and had never asked or
known how she had been kept alive. He appeared to be so utterly
irresponsible that he could not be made more so.
At the visitor's suggestion, it was soon decided that the younger
daughter should take a place at service, where she could earn something
and yet go home every night. Such a place the visitor found for her, and
the girl was eager to save money to buy herself a coat for the following
winter. The needs of the family, however, made it necessary to take the
earnings for living expenses; but the visitor promised that somehow a
coat for the winter should be forthcoming. When the employer closed her
house in July, the visitor found a situation for the girl for the summer
in one of the country towns. Of this time the visitor writes: "All the
time I felt that the family were suffering more than was right. The
children were fatherless and with a sick mother, and little A. was
constantly ill, first one thing and then another, the doctors saying that
he was under-nourished. Mrs. X. did jobs of washing and scrubbing as she
could get them or was able, and the two children of thirteen both worked.
So a benevolent person consented to take entire charge of the family,
giving just what I should think proper. Accordingly, from that date to
October 10 an average of $2.65 a week was given, besides $13.00 for
clothes and other things. Also, {211} Mrs. X. and the two boys were sent
to the country for one week. Notwithstanding this, Mrs. X. felt the
summer a hard one. She was not a brisk or cheerful woman. She had
suffered a great deal from the heat, and A. had diphtheria and other
illnesses." In the fall it was arranged that the girl should again go to
school; and the married sister finally offered, in order to make this
possible, to board her and provide her with boots until Christmas. The
Provident Association, after considering the case carefully, offered to
give $2.00 a week and coal and clothing. The friend who had been giving
all the help stood ready to give if more than this was needed. Two
months later Mrs. X. had her husband arrested, and sent to the Island for
a month.
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