Friendly Visiting among the Poor: A Handbook for Charity WorkersRichmond, Mary Ellen
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Friendly Visiting among the Poor: A Handbook for Charity Workers
Richmond, Mary Ellen
Friendly visiting
_Unconscious Influence of Good Neighbors._--I would venture to say that
there is not an immoral man or woman in neighborhoods known as
disreputable, however completely he or she may have cast off
self-restraint and regard for character, who has not daily examples of
persons, close to such homes and haunts of vice, living honest and
morally clean lives, and who is not, to a degree not consciously known,
restrained and influenced by the contact. . . . Space will not permit
many instances to be stated, but, as illustrating what I am wishful to
make clear, I give two. In a court behind a street well known as bearing
almost the worst character in Manchester lives a man, paralyzed, unable
to leave an old sofa which has been his bed for months. He was in the
Royal Infirmary, and there pronounced incurable, but likely to live years
with ordinary care. He could have been taken to the workhouse hospital
at Crumpsall, where he would have {216} had careful nursing and suitable
food. He has no dread of the workhouse hospital, and would gladly go if
he had any hope of cure. He speaks most gratefully of his treatment at
the Royal Infirmary. But there is no hope of cure, and his wife and he
have determined to keep together while he lives, and he refuses the
comforts of the hospital, and she refuses to let him go from her. She
has made her home in this court, working in the room in which he lies,
with only another room for their four children. She earns an average of
5s. weekly; her eldest boy earns at a situation 5s. more, and on what is
left out of 10s., after paying 2s. 6d. rent, and buying coal and light,
the six live. (The condition of things is now improved by the guardians
deciding to take two of the children into Swinton Schools.) This is a
simple and very ordinary story. But what is the effect of the woman's
work? She says little to her neighbors. Her high purpose and her
complete devotion to her husband and children have made other women
ashamed of sin, and made men wish themselves worthy of women like her.
She has no thought that she is doing anything but giving her life for her
husband and children, has no knowledge of what the words "unconscious
influence" mean--but none the less she is "a light shining in a dark
place."
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