Friendly Visiting among the Poor: A Handbook for Charity WorkersRichmond, Mary Ellen
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Friendly Visiting among the Poor: A Handbook for Charity Workers
Richmond, Mary Ellen
Friendly visiting
Her first expression of real feeling was when
she consulted me about her plan for taking boarders, and that was after
nine months of constant visiting. She then said that I was the only
friend that she had in the world; and later, when the plan was in
successful operation, she told me that she attributed all her prosperity
to me, and that she was a star in my crown. That she owed all her
prosperity to me was of course an exaggeration. I could not have helped
her had she not been the essentially decent woman she was. But, at the
same {214} time, it was true that, had she not been helped and encouraged
when her destitution was so great, she would probably have lacked both
the physical and moral strength, as well as the opportunity later, to
stand upon her own feet. And, when her bad fortune again overtook her,
it was much for her that she had a friendly visitor to turn to. She felt
it so herself; and, as she lay moaning with pain, she sobbed out that I
was the only comfort she had on earth."
After the breaking of her wrist, Mrs. X. was dependent for a long time,
since the wrist did not knit properly, and her right hand was almost
disabled. It did not seem as if she could ever get on her feet again.
But after a time she wished to move to one of the country towns where she
had acquaintances. The visitor went to the place herself to examine the
chances, and decided that the plan was worth trying. The Provident
Association gave $10.00 for moving and $10.00 more for a start. After
that the visitor gave a little from time to time; but, for the most part,
the family were self-supporting. The boy worked in a factory, the girl
was employed by a neighbor, and the mother raised hens and vegetables.
At last accounts the daughter was married. Her husband is of good
character and prosperous. Both the brothers are earning good wages, the
younger one having grown from a sickly child to a strong and hearty boy.
The mother is successful with her poultry, and gets high prices for {215}
the eggs. The husband comes and goes as formerly, contributing nothing
to the family income, but doing no special harm to any but himself.
Certainly, the present condition of the family is a very happy contrast
to that in which they were first found; and certainly, also, these
changed conditions are in no small degree due to the earnest and devoted
efforts of the visitor.--Sixteenth Report of Boston Associated Charities,
pp. 45 _sq_.
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